She likes me, i think she loves me like alot, but i'm just into getting other things, well i also enjoy the company, but she wants way more, should i continue or stop while im ahead?? i'm not sure.. but i really want to stay with here, not cuz i like like her... hmmm..
2007-03-06 06:51:17 · 26 answers · asked by cashfan28 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you call yourself a man, tap it and move on to the next one,
2007-03-06 06:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't interested in this girl for more than her physical attributes, don't lead her on. It's nice to just date and have a casual relationship and go your seperate ways, but not if one person is expecting more. Let her know that you just aren't interested in her that way.
More importantly, get to know her better. If you would like to have a more serious relationship, take the time to find out if you would enjoy being with her. Express this to her, and know that it may well end the relationship you have... which, by the way, would be good for her if she's starting to become emotionally attached. The longer she believes that you two could have something more, the harder it will be for her.
Good luck, and I hope you do the right thing.
2007-03-06 14:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by vengerofthelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her know that! Don't lead her along. Not saying you are in this situation, but sometimes when you don't say anything at all she might just assume, if you know what I mean. You should want to be with someone that you like in the physical and mental department. Although I think someone who is mentally at my level would be better. Physical stuff isn't all there is in life, you have to be willing to open up your mind to other possibilities in a girl. Don't settle just because you like someone in the physical way. You may end up regretting it later.
2007-03-06 14:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by kelride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stick with her as a friend because if she's fun to be around then maybe you might warm up to her but you don't really want hurt her feelings or you can talk to her about it to make sure she get the point of how you are feeling
2007-03-06 14:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by carmel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say find someone that interestes you both physicaly and mentally. I know that looks are what usually gets most ppl intereted in eachother, but in the long run you need to feel connected to the person...plus remember that looks can change!
2007-03-06 14:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now before you really hurt her feelings. It is one thing if you are both on the same page but since you are not, you need to be honest and if she still wants more then leave it alone.
2007-03-06 14:56:19 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should like a person physically and mentally, it's healthy for a relationship and the relationship won't undergo as much stress as it would if you weren't attracted to both sides of her.
2007-03-06 14:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you want sex and not a relationship right? well i would stop leading her on and let her go find someone that will love her for all of her and not just the out side
2007-03-06 14:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you just want to be friends for now. You are just not ready for anything more than that with her. I hope that you r not leading her on?
2007-03-06 14:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by petty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not fair to her. It's like you're using her and leading her on. You should give her the opportunity to find someone who will like her for who she is.
2007-03-06 14:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop while your ahead do not sacrifice others emotions for you physical fantasy you can fulfill that with any cheap good looking girl
2007-03-06 14:54:27 · answer #11 · answered by soobvious 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋