2007-03-06 06:47:57 · 46 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think in theroy it's ok and that you should just to get an idea of what you like and what kind of person you want to be with there's many fish in the sea and you should try to sample a little of each
to know what you REALLY LOVE as opposed to just dating one person at a time you end up just loving what you have right now and not really knowing what you want, i think this maybe a leading cuase for people not happy in realtionships you kow the whole mister/misses right now not mr./ms. right thing that most people seems to have ,seriously would you buy a car with out test driving a few other brands just to see what thier like? i've dated a few black girls and a few latino's even though they really wernt my cup of tea,i'd just wondered what dark chocolate and mexican tasted like one was bitter and the other was to spicy lol
so i know what i really dont want now and can move on to other things with a chance to have somtihng that will last.
BUT IN REALITY THATS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN most girls (at least the ones you would wnt anything to do with) wont do that as they are to emotional and cant deal with comptation so if you can actully work somtihng like this out that would be cool and i'd go for it as well but chances are it's really not going to happen look at all of th eother girls in here agreeing that it's wrong it's not wrong it's just fair really
2007-03-06 06:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say yes while it's in the preliminary of the dating scale. Once u both start to have strong feelings for each other and maybe get sexual then it should probably stop. However, women will probably see this as u being a player and might lessen ur chances with some of them if they find out. But to get out and test the waters I'd say by all means u should be able to keep ur options open.
2007-03-06 06:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by mac_attack_51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good idea for people to date more than one person at a time, as long as you are honest about that with each person you are dating. If we limit ourselves in our search to find happiness, then we can regret not having known more folks in life. Honesty is the best policy here, but if you date others who feel it's okay to date others as well, I think you'll find that those you are going out with will have a higher level of self-confidence.
Have a great day!! Annie
2007-03-06 06:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating (no sexual intimacy) is very casual, so it is perfectly fine to date several people at once. That's how you learn more about the people you are dating in the hopes of finding that one special person that you want to try having a relationship with.
Once you make a commitment to one person, you don't date or sleep with anyone else.
2007-03-06 06:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've got to hide it from any of the people you're dating, then it's not okay.
Personally, when I'm in a relationship-seeking mode, I'm most comfortable dating only one person at a time; when I'm not, then dating more than one person can be fun. Again, though, only if I'm open with them about that -- not fair to set up unrealistic expectations, y'know.
2007-03-06 06:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by tantrickster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is, dating is NOT about having sex or bed hopping. Dating is people who enjoy the same inetests and enjoy one another's company. If you enjoy going to movies and enjoy the company of a particular person it is natural that you would want to enjoy both on a date right?
2007-03-06 06:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are free to date as long as you want,as long as you are not involved in a serious relationship.Even if for men dating somebody else seems normal,a woman is thought to be not serious if she is dating more than one person.
2007-03-06 06:53:31 · answer #7 · answered by Tymeea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when just dating,'yes.' while in a relationship no! also as long as the other person knows that the two of you are just dating, and our open to see other people, then thats ok.
2007-03-06 06:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by wicked_eyez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I think you should date LOTS of people. How else can you find someone that is right to get serious about. Of course, you have to be honest about it. AND I don't equate dating lots of people with "sleeping around". Dating doesn't necessarily mean sex. Dating is more casual than that.
2007-03-06 06:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally wouldn't want to be with a guy who goes out with other girls, and I wouldn't want to have more than one guy that I'm dating... but I don't really see a problem with it for other people, as long as they actually want to do it.
2007-03-06 06:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋