four choices....?

Question

if you had four people "women" chasing after you, which would be the most appealing to you..1) an ex who was always walking in and out of your life 5 times, cheated on you, and now wants you back. used me for eveything b/c no one wants her around, but we have a 4 y-o together. 2) a person who u had a GREAT time with, gave you everything & anything & only the long dist. brk us apart. b/c i relocated for my job 3) the *trophy* girl who is HOT & everyone wants...the sex is awesome. i know i love her and she loves me, the problem, she is engaged to be married in june which she doesnt like him at all 4) a college "virgin" who is very nice & sweet but will also be leaving for the summers in 07 & 08 and once she is done with school in 3 years will move out of the city. if you had to choose, which person is the most appealing. guys and gals both answer please. thanks

Answer 1

This is difficult because it really boils down to what makes "YOU" tick. Are you looking for drama (choice 1); a true love connection but the need to reconcile who is moving(choice 2); eye candy with no real substance or else she wouldn't be engaged to someone else (choice 3); uncertainty based on someone just experiencing life (choice 4). Where are you in your life right now??? That is why all of these choices have presented themselves. For you to determine if you are in a stable part of your life, or an uncertain part. I would say uncertain since you are staring at 4 different situations and women and trying to decide on one. Date them all until you are clearly ready to settle down, but be honest with them all while you are doing it.

Answer 2

a person who cheats is never appealing, and the trophy girl is not someone you can call your own, if she doesn't like the guy, why is she going to marry him? and between the other two, it depends on what type of relationship you want--if you want long term, then the college "virgin" isn't for you, if you can deal w/ the long distance i say stick w/ #2

Answer 3

...number 2 sounds to me to be the best choice seriously. The ex is absolutely out of the question...you already know what's gonna happen there again. The hottie is engaged to a guy she doesn't love,...well duh!... and the other one is a temp...She's not gonna be hanging around long enough...so what do you think really? Must be rough having so many choices here dude. Hopefully you're not bragging here reasonably. By the looks of your dilemma here my friend...you shouldn't be anyways. Good luck with your choices here though seriously. I'm thinking if this is the worst stuff you have to worry about...you're not doing too badly anyways. Have fun choosing!

Answer 4

Depends on what you are looking for:
1 - abuse over and over (see the kid, the the *****)
2 - a great relationship that will take sacrifices
3 - to look great and have great sex until June
4 - to have a good time and maybe no sex until summer

#2 is most appealing to me.

Answer 5

2, is worth the try. 1 and 3 are cheaters and that will never change. Leave 4 alone, clearly she is saving herself for someone who is worth it, and you are not mister 4 woman man - that will never change about you either.

Answer 6

None of the above...all are impossible situations with multiple problems...wait for the right one cause damn... none of these can possibly be long term and are doomed to end in tears...

Answer 7

None of them...move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea. If you have to try and make a choice, none of them are meant for you.

Answer 8

None. But if I could pretend that I knew them, the long distance. Probably

Answer 9

I would go with number two ( 2 ) .

Answer 10

#4 but is a male