I am totaly inexperienced. I'm 18 and was a total bookworm during highschool so I never dated or messed around. My bf and I though are planning on marrying and are very much in love and I want to be able to do some things to please him and make him feel good... but I have no clue what to do. Where are a guys soft spots? What kind of touching feels good to them? I'm clueless as to please a guy.
2007-03-06 06:36:16 · 51 answers · asked by karateprincess17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If oral is against the question, you can at least try masturbation. Even if you prefer not to touch him, he can masturbate himself while making out with you and vice versa.
2007-03-06 07:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by Edub 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well..I am not sure if we are all the same but just like moving your hands up and down in a real soft way on our back/arms thats a good way to kick it off..I know my ear(s) are kinda sensitive area's not sure if all guys are the same. But pretty much if you just like put your hands on him and if your hands are soft thats like an instant "in" or like a a little back massage or something and you gold! Then you can take it from there. And if your worried about not knowing what do to don't be cause if you and him are gonna be tog then it don't matter how you act between you two if either he or you gets embarrassed even the porn stars have to have a first time [and I could only imagine] that they were not pro's then!..lol
2007-03-06 06:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by beer_guy_07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you won't gain any experience until you've tried ,,,, Experimenting is part of the fun and a good way to get to know him even better ,,,, Don't chicken out ,,,, If you don't know some thing then simply ask him ,,,, You should be just as willing and truthful with him if he asks you something ,,,, Like I said experimenting and exploring is part of the fun of learning new things about him and helps to bring the both of you together even closer ,,,,
Have fun ,,,,,,,
2007-03-06 06:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im younger than you and know all the good spoys what can i say in a slut...
okay theirs right on the hip...give him a kiss and a lick...he'll love it
oh and the inside of the leg right by the crees...sucking... and oral
but that might be to close and might lead to something else
so theirs the innocent stuff like the neck
oh and if you dont understand what in talking about just email meeh
2007-03-07 07:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by i'm a rebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Especially if you plan on marrying, hang on to "that special gift"
for you honeymooning, and convince him to do the same. You
won't hear it here, but the respect and feelings he'll have for you
will not be superficial if you follow that one guideline. There are
many ways that you can please him, but if you get too involved
with touchy feely you'll have more than one problem. Other than
that, it all comes pretty naturally, and sounds to me like you're his
biggest softspot.
2007-03-06 07:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your not ready wait.. if you do try to make him feel good it's going to lead sex. It never fails. You will know when the time is right. And when it comes that's when it's going to blow both of your minds. Don't plan it. Just let it happen.
2007-03-06 06:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask him... say something like, since we're getting married and i want to wait until then to have sex, do you know of anything else we can do until then? i'm sure he'll have suggestions. if you're comfortable enough with this guy to marry him, talking about this should be no problem at all.
Also, touching him and stuff might just lead to frustration since you're not going to have sex yet. That might lead to fights, pressure on you for sex, cheating, anything... just be careful and make sure you trust him! :) Have fun!
2007-03-06 06:43:20 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all learn to loosen up a bit and enjoy the experience. Don't be afraid to get wet or to make noises. Men love bl*wj*bs. You can practice on a banana, or better yet practice on him. He'll be your best teacher, and don't be afraid to show him or tell him what makes you feel good. Before you know it, you'll be having some great sex.
2007-03-06 06:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Okay, bookworm... ever hear of "The Joy of Sex"? A classic in the field. Read and learn; the rest will come naturally.
2007-03-06 06:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
First of all, you should be asking your bf what turns him on and his hot spots and all. But, from experience....try the neck, ear lobe, sucking onthe nipples (they love that...lol), kissing their body all over, esp. the sides (will make the squirm) or one of my favorites.....sucking the dick. And with that you can ask him to show you how he likes it sucked. That can be fun together. Good Luck!! Applaud you on waiting until marriage!!
2007-03-06 06:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋