Iam in love with a woman that broke my heart. She acts like she doesnt care about me but when I dont call her or be there when she needs something she flirts her way back and being a idiot I hang on. I thought that if I got her a ring and asked her to marry me and turned me down my stupid heart will let her go and I can move on. So I dont want to spend alot of money on a ring I think she will give right back to me but if she does say yes(I pray) I dont want her to laugh when I tell her I want to get a better one?
2007-03-06 06:21:22 · 39 answers · asked by rodeomantx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
What a sweet guy you are! You really need to get away from this chic at all costs! She doesn't love you.... I'm sorry to be so blunt but read your own question - she doesn't care. You definately don't want to marry this girl because she'll never be what you want. You want her to want you and only you and it sure doesn't sound like that's what's going on. You pray she says yes but then you think if she turns you down your stupid heart will let go?????? What is up with you? She broke your heart already - WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND - it's your turn to move on!!! I wish you luck but you really need to wake up.
2007-03-06 06:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by cannonkd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy her a cheap ring. What I would do if you insist on giving her a gift, is buy her a lovely necklace in 14K or a bracelet in 14K. Why are you hanging on to someone who broke your heart? Don't become a masochist. Do you like being mistreated by this woman? Did she indicate to you that she wanted to get engaged and you didn't get her a ring? This looks like a one sided romance and I think if she rebuffs you when you give her a gift then its time to move on. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and find another girl. There a very nice girls out there who are looking for a great guy like you seem.
2007-03-06 08:01:34 · answer #2 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to give a cheap engagement ring. Often couples do not have much money at that point in their lives. The woman will cherish the engagement for its sentimental value regardless of its price.
However, I don't think you should buy a ring at all. Engagement, as a prelude to marriage, is a serious thing. It sounds as though neither of you are ready for marriage. It doesn't even sound as if you two should be a couple.
2007-03-06 06:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure and keep the reciept. Go buy a ring at JcPenney's, Sears, Kohl's. They usually have rings for around $300 or so. My hubby bought my ring at JcPenney for around $300-$400. My wedding band was custom made at over $1,000. So you can jazz it up once you know that the wedding is going to happen. Remember a pawn shop will buy rings at a decent price.
Don't tell her that you want to get her a better one. If you want to do that, buy her a promise ring and then later buy her an engagement ring & wedding band.
Good Luck!
2007-03-06 06:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think you should get her a cheap ring. I would hate that because I would think that my boyfriend didn't love me enough to buy a nice one. If you don't think she's ready for this type of comitment then please don't get ingaged to her at all. It's better than giving her a cheap ring That she won't be proud of. Plus when everyone asks her if they can see it she'l be to embarassed to show them.Wait to ask her when you guys are truly in love then you won't have to give her a candy machine one. If she's worth it to you then the ring should be worth it 2.
2007-03-06 09:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Deja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That has too much potential to backfire on you. Either you love this person or you don't. If you don't then tell her you're done and then change your phone number and move on.
But don't be so silly to think that a girl will dump you over a cheap engagement ring.
2007-03-06 06:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, are you a glutton for punishment or what. Tell her flat out that if she doesn't start treating you better, then it is over. Why give her all the power in the relationship. You don't have to be her doormat. Don't buy her a ring. Make her earn it.
2007-03-06 06:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she makes you feel like **** all the time you need to just move on. Why are you praying that she accepts your wedding ring? It sounds like you're the lonely stalker type and she's a floozy that only wants you around when she needs you.
2007-03-06 06:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fine to get her a cheap ring! Love isnt about the price or size of the ring or wedding its about you loving each other & being true to each other! I hope this helps! Good Luck :)
2007-03-06 06:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by She is Beautiful! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to say this as nicely as I can: grow a set, and be done with her.
She'll take your big ring and everything else you have but in the end she'll go... she cannot respect you because you're not acting like a man!
2007-03-06 06:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by blueyedgirl623 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋