What should I make of his reactions?

Question

What should I make of his reactions?
A friend of mine at work and I had a fight. We haven't talked for over a month since he told me that I was too weird for him to be friends with since I got a little obsessed with him and that it was best that we ignore each other since I began to like him as more than friend. The thing is he already has a gf overseas. I've been ignoring him, but he keeps throwing glances at me. Last week he was looking and I caught him looking and then he lowered his eyes like he couldn't look at me. YesterdayI sent him an email saying hi, but he hasn't responded back. Then I stopped by desk and said hi and hi back like he wanted to talk. I asked him how he was doing and he said fine and I wished him a good day and he said have a good one too. The thing is he never apologized to me and keeps acting like nothing happened. Today I said hi and he looked kinda nervous and then I almost ran into him and play punched him on the shoulder and asked how he was doing and he
luked at me like i was weird.

Answer 1

It might be hard to stomach, but he's probably not interested in being friends or anything else. He's probably looking at you because he's nervous about having to interact with you. He's probably a pretty nice guy, who doesn't want to be a dick to you, so he's still willing to make smalltalk, but is wary of the stalker/obsession thing.

If you really want to clear things up (since it's been a month and things may have changed), go talk to him, tell him you will be OK with it if he doesn't want to talk to you, and ask him point blank. It might blow up or be awkward, but at least you'll know where you stand.

Answer 2

why do you want to be friends with someone like that? being called weird etc.. don't email him. don't say hi don't do anything that's what ignore means. do you like the game playing? if not ignore him. if you have to work together then a simple hi. will do go on with the rest of your day. everything else is just crazy.

Answer 3

PEOPLE THIS IS HER THIRD TIME ASKING THIS SAME QUESTION

What i make of your reaction is that you are obsessed (like he said)...you should just hurry up and kidnap him and rape him...is your favorite movie Misery?...I feel so sorry for that guy, there has got to be some "crazy" rumors about you at work...Why are you asking the same question? This is going to be my last time responding to this same question...so i'm going to be nice and just say "Please leave him alone"













"before i put a restraining order out on you for him."

Answer 4

I think you should leave him alone..don't bring personal feelings into the work place..it sounds like he really just wants you to leave him alone..he may be looking at you to see if you're still staring at him..I mean he does think you're weird already..hopefully he isn't trying to put a case together to get you fired for sexual harassment

Answer 5

Sounds like this guy likes the attention, but overall is trying to distance himself from you (don't take that personally). The best thing to do is give him space; if he wants to continue a relationship of any sort he is going to need to make the effort. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't want to spend time knowing you.

Answer 6

Well if you like him and he likes you, you do little stuff to make him stop thinking about his girlfriend oversees, because to tell you the truth, if he wasn't intrested in you, he wouldn't keep glancing over at you, or he might just be horny

Answer 7

hun the reason why he is looking at you is to make sure you arent looking at him he is a butthead and he needs to grow the heck up

dont talk to him and dont be friendly but if you do have to talk to him say hi and be kind

but he is a jerk and he doesnt deserve you hun

Answer 8

Find someone else, and just leave him alone...

Answer 9

leave

Answer 10

are you weird??????????????