is trust worthy and considerate and treets me well, why am I not happy?
2007-03-06 06:13:27 · 13 answers · asked by danity0414 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he is not what you want. Maybe he does not stimulate you in the sense of brains or humor or something else you can be with someone that is good to you but not what you want in other ways. In other words there is no connection.
2007-03-06 06:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just isn't the right guy for you--it happens. Deliver the news in the most humane way possible so he can be free to find someone that he is better suited for. And tell him that you think he is trustworthy, considerate and treats you well. He'll remember your words after you've parted. Good LUck
2007-03-06 14:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have that problem a lot. He is perfect and yet ur still not certain. Maybe what you thought you wanted in a guy really isn't what you wanted. People change. But you cannot let him go on thinking that everything is fine. Tell him how your feeling and he will probably reassure you and make you feel dumb that you ever doubted it all.
2007-03-06 14:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by sweeter than you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that he treats you too nice or that you maybe are taking him a little for granted? Unless you don't really like him as much as you do then in all fairness to him you should let him know so you don't lead him on. If not...be happy! many people would die to have someone like that as a partner!
2007-03-06 14:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you find nice guys like him to be a bit boring. Maybe you need a guy who will cheat on you, curse you out and smack you up every once in a while to keep the fire lit.
2007-03-06 14:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Subconsciousless 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the bad guy effect. you like adventure, mystery, action. you find it boring when a guys does the same thing over and over and over... either that you are looking for something more in life... you should explore and evaluate where your life is going before you settle... you don't want hurt feelings...
2007-03-06 14:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cuz this guy treats you well doesn't mean he is the one for you...i say you should wait id out a couple of days...maybe a week and if you don't feel anything by then leave him...but do it gentaly
2007-03-06 14:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by zack t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many reasons. maybe your subconcious is telling you something. maybe hes not a good a guy as he seems to be. maybe your personalities don't mesh well together. if its meant to be it will work out in the end.
2007-03-06 14:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe thats not exactly what your looking for you might find it boring and want someone a lil more (not completely) controlling and will worry about where your at b/c it shows he cares.
2007-03-06 14:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by hot_pink_gurl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a bore person? Or you don't love him at all? You should have the answer for yourself.
2007-03-06 21:55:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋