He is 14 and I am 18 and we have kissed and frenched kissed before with each other alot is that wrong or is it right to follow your heart now matter what it is telling you and what your brain is telling you to do too!!!!
2007-03-06 06:04:09 · 39 answers · asked by Amy BUBBLE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's nothing wrong with that. There is only a 4 years difference. When both of you get older, it will be more acceptable.
2007-03-06 06:07:13 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
technically if you sleep with this guy you will be doing something illegal because he is still very much a minor and you are an adult
of course you cant control your heart....... no one can
but you do have control over how your behavior is effected by your heart
its a really tricky area that i would suggest you to stay away from to be honest
14 is barely a teenager....... think of it that way
ps im amazed how many people are saying to follow your heart. where would the line stop for you guys? do you keep following your heart if they are 13? 12? 9?
additionally, i completely agree with some of the guys discussing double standards. If this was a guy of 18 mucking around with a 14 year old girl 'follow your heart' probably wouldnt have come up. The laws are in place to protect children from sexual predators..... this is not some crazy law that infringes on personal freedom.... it is a law that means it is illegal for an adult to have sexual contact with children.
2007-03-06 06:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I don't think it's "wrong" but I think you are going to get yourself into something you will regret, this boy is only 14, he's not a guy... He just hit puberty probably 2 or less years ago, he's still immature for his age and he is going to want different things, plus with the whole law thing, your looking at a HUGE lawsuit being throw at you if anyone were to find out and blab.
Good Luck
2007-03-06 06:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by »ŘªīńВŏŵ•Öf•Ρřįđę« 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the funny thing is that as we get older it becomes common for women to date younger men but when were still in our teens it becomes awkward. The thing to remember is if you are in a relationship with this person when you turn twenty one and his not there yet it's considered against the law...however things considering you might be finding yourself into seeing his giving you feelings you want to feel and his just at his peek of exploration. Be careful. But also can you see yourself officially dating? I see nothing wrong with a younger guy but you should look at it at all aspics.
2007-03-06 06:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world does a 14yr and 18yr have in comman?? I personally think its sick there are many men out there that are 18 and up, isnt that rape or some crap since he is only 14yr anyway?
Why risk it? I think there is something wrong if a 18yr women wants to get it on with a 14yr....
2007-03-06 06:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What you're doing is illegal, but if we look realistically at society, cops won't care!
If you are a woman having a fling with a minor boy, society doesn't care.
If you are a man having a fling with a minor girl, society will hang you, cut your balls off and feed them you before your choke to death.
You are taking advantage of a double standard. But that still doesn;t make you right.
PREDATOR!!!!!
2007-03-06 06:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are walking on a fine line. I would talk with your parents about it and look at the laws of your state. You two may have to just stay friends till he is of age.
2007-03-06 06:07:06 · answer #7 · answered by sexypanty07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Its right for a 18 year old girl to go out with a minor. But it's unnaceptable for an 18 year old guy to go out with a minor.
2007-03-06 06:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, you'd better listen to your brain. If you cross particular lines, it becomes "statutory rape." The law is not kind to anyone who is over 18 that does "adult" things with minors.
2007-03-06 06:07:22 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-06 06:07:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋