I found out that my boyfriend has been using escort service for a year, about 13 times paying about $200-$400 per hour. WE have been together for 8 yrs and I am torn. It' angers me because he still check out reviews even now. I can say it's part my fault because I have no time for him and make him feel low priority. But does it make it okay for him to keep me by taking care of his sexual fantasy outside?
I am very worry because I know he loves me but he seems to be addicted to the escort service. He could pick any girls with any size he wants. It's just as bad as gambling, alcholic etc.
Lately I been pretending to be more sexually active to please him. It's working but as we are doing it, I can imaging those girls he had and how I can't compete with them.
I want to confront him, but I feel I can never trust him again, he will just be more tighter in hiding it from me.
I hate this... what should I do?
2007-03-06 05:56:11 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave. You don't deserve that sort of treatment. If you don't feel like you can trust him, leave. Escort services are the same as cheating....
2007-03-06 06:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by L♥G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The definite answer is to leave him. 1) He pays for sex. 2) Gambling. 3) Alcoholic. Three huge signs of a loser. (not that there's anything wrong with a little gambling or alcohol, but too much is a bad thing) Why would stay with him if it's clearly not working out? On top of that, if you are too busy to spend time with your bf it's only going to hurt you both.
I know 100% if my girl was going to some escort service and doing other guys I'd leave her without even hesitating.
2007-03-06 06:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. It is not your fault that he keeps going to this escort service. He has clearly chose that over his relationship with you. If you can't trust him, you should be gone. No trust means no relationship. He very well could be addicted to this escort service and nothing you can do will change that. If you were my girlfriend of eight years and I found out you were going to an escort service for sex, our relationship would end in about thirty seconds.
2007-03-06 06:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by msi_cord 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, problem #1: 8 YEARS!!! I'm thinkin' there's a reason for that; could be your typing, but I'm thinking something else.
Frankly, for that kinda coin, you should probably consider being his outsource escort provider. At least it's a win-win.
Otherwise, sprout a brain and bail. You obviously are not willing to make whatever changes are necessary for HIM and would rather whine about it on Yahoo. Plus, c'mon, if he's dropping serious jack like that, you're missing out on some nice dinners, theater, etc. I'm thinking dose losers. I'm just sayin.
2007-03-07 12:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him, immediately! Oh my gosh, he is your boyfriend and he is using an escort service??? You cannot be with this guy. Not even to mention the potentially STDs that he may be exposing you to!
He is NOT worth it, leave him. You deserve a man that wants ONLY you.
2007-03-06 06:01:16 · answer #5 · answered by Aquaria 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't even blame yourself for his infidelity. he needs help, suggest to him that you need to go to couples therapy. It's not fair to you that he looks outside your relationship to get his jolly's off with escorts that's cheating, plain and simple
2007-03-06 06:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like there's much of a relationship left. It sounds like you're just worried about not having one. I don't think you have much of one as it is. I'd move on to someone who doesn't require sex as a condition of the relationship.
2007-03-06 06:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
People don't change. Leave him to avoid future troubles.
2007-03-06 06:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by RetroBunny69 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM!
He's been cheating on you for over a year!
2007-03-06 06:00:57 · answer #9 · answered by DeeGee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋