taking an interest in you by doing the following
helping you with your coursework/studies when she's with you at college
asking you about family
asking you what stuff you like
asking you about the things you say
asking you what music you like
allowing you to touch her without complaining ie touching when you're sat next to each other
touching you with her hands
allowing you to use her stuff
talking to you openely
showing you her stuff
talking about her partner ie his bad habits and good one's
telling you what she's done
telling you what she likes
taking you shopping and allowing you to fetch and buy stuff for her
being generally friendly and positive
she does have a boyfriend but this girl keeps on asking me to take her places.
who thinks i should make a move, when i am next to her (we always sit together). i even tried massaging her leg with my foot once and she didn't flinch or move at all. should i ask on a date.
2007-03-06 05:51:08 · 49 answers · asked by rjhamuk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's never a good idea to ask someone out when they are involved with someone else. enjoy her friendship.
2007-03-06 05:54:12 · answer #1 · answered by lilpinay 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, you should not ask her on a date. This young lady is really confused it seems yeah she likes you, but she is in a relationship that is apparently on the rocks. She of course likes you and allows you to do things that are way beyond a normal platonic relationship because she's not getting what she truly desires from her boyfriend. Let this play out follow her lead and you will ultimately end up with her just don't ruin the relationship now by rushing.
2007-03-06 05:59:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds good and all but if she has a boyfriend then I would leave it alone. Well unless you are cool with being second on the waiting list with her. She osunded good until you said that she has a boyfriend and all. Besides dude she knows that you are a good guy and she wants a part of that. Just tell her that you like her too but that you are not comfortable with the fact that she has a boyfriend and see what she says. Besides you don't want that drama in your life do you? What if her man finds out, what if she gets pregnant and both of you are having sex with her, what if she gets with you and then cheats on you the same way? I say if you are not concerned about of that then go ahead and hit it then but beware of what you wish for. Good luck
2007-03-06 05:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to step on anyone's game, so if this girl has a boyfriends than step away!
If she'll cheat on him with you, she will cheat on you with the next guy!
Try asking her how things are with her boyfriend and if she thinks it will last with him.. depending on her answer is where you will find yours.
If she says it's not working too well, suggest maybe you could make her happier :)
if she says things are great than next time she asks you to take her somewhere or buy her something, tell her to ask her boyfriend to do it! in that case, she would be using you!
be smart about it.
God bless & good luck!
2007-03-06 05:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has a boyfriend and you steal her .... well make sure he isn't a big guy who can beat you to a pulp! If she does all the things you said she does she probably does like you but why doesn't she ditch her boyfriend for you? Don't jump to conclusion about things to fast... If I were you I wouldn't ask her out unless you really feel she wants to be with you.. it kinda sounds like she does!
P.S. Info Right from the Girl Mind--- Watch out girls are tricky... I should know since I am a girl!
GOOD LUCK (:
2007-03-06 05:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by faista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say she does like you,but i think the best thing to do is ask her on a date to the movies or sumthing but make it a little less obvious and dont use the word date so u cant get rejected and try to make a move in the movies and see what happens or something good luck tho
2007-03-06 05:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by KIKKI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be a mild form of cheating. It could mount to something else. See, cheating is cheating. Ask her if she is trying to insinuate something. Don't necessarily make a move she seems nice. You might not know what her boyfriend is like. He may try to hurt you or something worse. Always look at your options.
2007-03-06 05:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sure that to somewhat extent she has got care for you.Mebbe,she's thinking of you as a second serious option to her bf,and is having a problem to break-off with him.But,depending on the kinda of person she is,this may or may not be applicable,but she may like to have both of u.Or even it may be that she's looking for a casual affair/sex with u.
2007-03-06 06:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by Desperate4YAnswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly do you mean by showing me her stuff LOL na she probly is jus a major flurt if shes got a boyfriend maybe u should steer cleer unless hes smaller than you then whip her up LOL
2007-03-06 06:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me before, if she's already got a partner i suggest you try and make HER say SHE likes YOU... if you jump in and try to 'date' her it might go wrong... Friends last longer than lovers in this case, so decide whether you want to take a chance or take the safer route.
2007-03-06 05:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by James G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she likes you or she wants some drama and wants to see you and her boy friend fight over her. But most likley she wants you and wants to get away from her boyfriend. But dont trust her too much because she might want to do that to you one day with another guy. "Stick and Move" Boi!
2007-03-06 05:57:46 · answer #11 · answered by Sleepy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋