why would someone call you up after several months, and ask 'do you miss me?' why wouldn't they just say 'i miss you.' it is strange, he would call under private number every 15 minutes in one day. i would not answer. i finally answered and he was quiet and then said 'hi.' i hung up on him. he called again under private, i didn't answer. i then called him back, and said 'why are you calling me?' he said, 'do you miss me?' i said, 'why are you asking me this question?' why is he doing this to me? does he think it is funny? or is it possible he really does miss me?
2007-03-06
05:49:42
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He doesn't miss you. He misses you missing him. There's a big difference. He sounds very egotistical. good luck to you.
2007-03-06 05:55:52
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answered by Kimmy 4
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You know I often wonder the same thing! My ex use to call me under private and say he missed me and all this BS. I never undestood Y! When we were together he wouldn't call me (long distance relationship) it would be days before I would even know where he was at! But it is a good question!
2007-03-06 05:55:09
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answered by JAG 2
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If the little voice inside of your head tells you that he does, then he does. some men don't know how to show their love, so they do everything in the book to make you think that they are psycho. But they are not you know. They just need time. But he misses you. He asked you that because then if he says that he misses you first he would not be masculine. He wants you to say it first and then he will say it. That's how men are.
2007-03-06 05:56:37
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answered by petty 2
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Sounds like he is having regrets and missing you. Or he is on the rebound from another relationship. I wouldn't take him back if I were you though, from the sound of it he likes to play games. One of my ex's used to call me when he would have a fight with his girlfriend. Whether it was to make her jealous or make himself feel better I have no idea, I just told him to knock it off because it was very irritating.
2007-03-06 05:55:38
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answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7
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You need to get rid of this guy. It sounds like he's sad and lonely and wants to see if you are too. It may not be that he misses you, he just wants to see if you're as miserable as he is. Find out if you can block that number. If you can't, don't answer the phone.
2007-03-06 05:54:33
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answered by eeyorek10 2
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Sounds like he is immature and is just playing a game with you. If he missed you he would have the balls to call you and tell you the 1st time. Drop-him forget him.. Move on.
2007-03-06 05:54:03
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answered by craziglueforever 2
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he's asking maybe because he doesn't know what else to say. he realize that he can't live without you. obviously he still thinks of you. if he really misses you he would be at your door telling you in person and not asking you over the phone. tell him to be a man and step it up. if he really wants you nothing can keep him from you.
2007-03-06 05:55:42
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answered by lala15 3
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he probably realized the mistake he made... my ex boyfriend dumped me and 8 months later he started to call and at first he was acting friendly then out no were he tried to get me to leave my new bf then he would tell me how much he missed me and how much he loves me... and all kinds of things.... so he probably misses u and just wants to know if ur over it or not
2007-03-06 05:54:51
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answered by lovepixiek 4
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He misses u and wants to know if you miss him before he tells u he misses u most likely.
2007-03-06 05:53:36
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answered by G-BOY 4
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He had another relationship which broke up. He thinks he can get you back, but he won't ask. He's trying to push your buttons. Keep ignoring him, he'll quiet eventually. It's immature and pathetic. DO NOT play his game. I'm sorry he's doing this to you.
2007-03-06 05:55:42
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answered by land-pliskin 2
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