Okay so i have read alot of disturbing answrs that sex has nothign to do with love, if that is the case then why do people break up when the other person cheats on them. If sex is jsut fun and something you share if you are together what shoudl it matter if the person you are with has sex elsewhere if it has nothgin to do with love. Sex has everyitng to do with love, it is the ultimate form of communication between two people who love. What are your thoughts?
2007-03-06 05:47:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey guys great answers- love and sex are both a very emnotioanl connection to the one you love anything else is just cheap thrill. Love is not physical it is emotional.
2007-03-06 06:05:34 · update #1
Love and sex can be one coin with two unseperable faces. You can't just disconnect one from the other... Love is great and precious and can be self-sufficient but sex is one of the means of expressing intimate and close unified physical feelings with your beloved.
When you betray your beloved by cheating on them and make sex with another even if for fun then you cheated one pillar constructing the whole building namely "Love" and consequently threatening the whole construction to an expected collapse at anytime. Love is full and absolute devotion whether spiritually or physically between a couple and if this secret is spread between more then it is no more a secret of faithful love .. call it anything else!
2007-03-06 05:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am not sure I can explain it to where you can understand but I will try.
Sex is not love to begin with although sex is how you show your love toward your wife.
Sex by it self outside the bonds of marriage is just sex.
It is like you said sex is the ultimate way of telling your wife that you love them.
But sex can always be misused abused and then it is just sex and has nothing to do with love it is just raw sex.
When you have sex in a marriage it is not just having sex you are making love you share your part of your soul with that person that is the difference.
2007-03-06 13:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree that sex is a great commitment.
Think about this. Many people don't have sex until there married yet they love each other (hopefully) so sex had nothing to do with the formation of their union.
but cheating or "going elsewhere for sex" is a breech of trust. It crushes relationships.
2007-03-06 13:54:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, I believe sex has everything to do with love. It depends on the individual. Some people may believe that casual sex is acceptable, and not feel the need to care deeply for their sexual partner. Others may feel that having sex with someone is a commitment and there must be love in the relationship before sex can take place. I want to feel something deep for the man I am with sexually....I feel that sex and love should go hand in hand....jmo.
2007-03-06 13:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Laneymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very intimate act. Many use it to express love/caring, even though sex itself is an act, not an emotion.
Due to the intimacy of the act, the fact that lies/secrets are usually told when a partner is cheating with someone else, the risk of pregnancy for the cheater/cheatee, and the risk of passing along STDs to the non-cheating partner, it is not typically acceptable behavior for someone who is supposed to be in a monogamous relationship.
Sex and love aren't the same...but monogamy means (to most) that you won't be having sex/intimate relations with others. Therefore having intimate relations with others constitutes having broken one's word that they would be monogamous.
2007-03-06 13:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it matters...I want to feel that i am the only one who was shared any lovemaking, or sexual activity with my husband, not that there are 3 other girls out there running around talking about the best sex ever and that my husbands is mentioned, I want to be the only one to have had intercorse with hima and vise versa......It means alot to a woman, so save yourself for the right person that way itwill be more merobile and it will mean alot more
and no sex has nothing to do with love, but i have sex with my husband and we love achother, sometimes we call it sex other times we call it making love.....
just to clear everything up, my husband and i were virgins when we met....I wanted to wait till marriage, but then one night it just happened, and now i come to think of it.....not having sex before marriage is kinda like buying a car before test driving it......but the sex osnt matter much in our relationship it is more about, love and trust
2007-03-06 13:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs.Gower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%. Sex is the ultimate communication of love between two people who are married, and to give that to someone else is just WRONG! If I found out my husband ever cheated on me, I would probably throw up first, and I'm not sure if I could ever forgive him. But, I would try, because I do understand mistakes happen, and it would certainly depend on the circumstances.
2007-03-06 13:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by bina64davis 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well.
that depends on your definition of that four letter word...LOVE..
What you think sex has to do with love, can tell so much about u. WHen you feel that sex has NOTHING to do with love, then love to you is more emotional and more of a feeling than just physical. If you think sex has EVERYTHING to do with love, you believe that love is physical.
I think that love is more of an emotional thing than a physical thing, a couple can love eachother passionately but not have sex. Sex i think is just a way to express your love.
And when u spare yourself for that person that you will love, so they will be your first and only, it means so much not only to you, but to the love of yourlife
IDk this is just my thinking
2007-03-06 13:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Leelah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree! It's amazing that you ask the same question my mind was just entertaining. I believe that sex and love do go together and they should be together. Unfortunately alot of people would disagree and yet be hurt when their "relationship" is ruined by the partner cheating on them.. Sex without love is cheap!!!!!
2007-03-06 13:53:18 · answer #9 · answered by liza246 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the people involved. Sex is just sex - but if you love someone they should be "making love" to just their partner. You can have sex without love - it just does not mean as much as it does when you are in love.
2007-03-06 13:54:13 · answer #10 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋