We broke up two days ago..... what do you think of a friend with benefits?

Question

Should I go for it?

Answer 1

Friend with benefits? Hmmmm I dunno. But this comes to mind, will you benefit too? You probably have a history with this person. If you can avoid the emotional baggage then it could be beneficial to you both, no need to be out prowling for someone you do not even know. If the breakup was amicable then I see no problem. After all you can both benefit. Each gender gains some pleasure and at little or no risk.

Answer 2

Friends with benefits with the one that you broke up with? what for? Let time pass by, be patient, move on, for a reason you guys broke up. Now if you're telling me that is someone different, then I would say to go for it, but I think that you meant the same guy, so no, big NNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOO!

Answer 3

If he's asking you to be a friend w/ benefits -- NO! But if it's for you, go ahead. Just do not let him use you!! But maybe give it a lil more time. Especially if he broke up with you...about 2 weeks then see what happens, be a buddy then.

Answer 4

No because women tend to involve emotion it is part of our nature. Eventually it will sneak up on you and bite you in the rear. You will cause yourself more harm then good. Going this route decreases your chances of having a serious relationship with this guy again. Your too easy guys don't want girls like that. You also increase your chances to disease. Think about this very seriously before going through with it.

Answer 5

Only if you realize that one of you will consider you guys back together or at least headed that way.

It's a very hard thing to pull off with people who were in love, it's much easier to do with more casual friends.

That being said, why not? Just know someone is using the other person until they find someone better.

Answer 6

Bad deal.........
You will never be free to find someone new. However, when your partner finds a new someone, they will drop the benefit, and you will be the one getting hurt. Your better off finding one nighters at bar time with no heart strings (do use protection, there is a lot of bad out there)

Answer 7

I don't think that would be a good idea with someone that you actually had a relationship with. You or he might get too attached and forget that you no longer have a relationship, and then when one of you finds someone that you actually want to be with, the other will be hurt big time.

Answer 8

Ex-sex is good. Just BE SURE you can handle the emotional aspect. I've done this many times, and sometimes I found that it was very difficult because I still really liked her. With other girls, it was them who still liked me and that's not good either. Sometimes, however, it works out great! You already know each others bodies and likes in bed.

Answer 9

i brokern up with someone and we were friends with benifits but then we got back together if that what your talking about if you love him then friend with benifits is not really a good idea because he well soon be with someone eles and it well hurt you very much .


if it is just a friend then no there is nothing wroung with that if you feel comfortable with that person then you have no problem being with him. just be careful because if your a friend with benifits then there could be more out there.

Answer 10

I've always thought it was a bad idea. If he's not good enough to be in a relationship with he's not good enough to be intimate with. Everyone likes different things so I guess it really depends on how you feel about it.