iam 9 months pregnant and now hubby is leaving to us on h1-b visa.he might be there for 3years or so .now my problem is that i cant join him as iam pregnant and after the baby arrive i cant join him for atleast 1 year and even if hubby calls me,he says he will not be able to afford that much so he wants me to stay just for 6 months or so.the other problem is FIL,my MIL expired so FIL is alone and my hubby is papa´ s boy he dont want to leave his father alone and he wants me to take care of him.he didnt say that but thats the only reason he dont want me to be with him and he said that he will call me and his father togther to us,is this possible?is he eligiable for the visa?as any other girl i also want to live my life with hubby alone as my relation with FIL is not good.hes very greedy.iam very depressed about this can any one help me with this problem? my FILwants htheir daughters to be happy with their husbands but when its comes to me their dont care this really hurts me.FIL is very happy his son is going to us bcoz now he can spend as much as he can and he belive his son will call him to us.this people are really very partial.what should i do now?i even had not asked my hubby about calling me there as now iam worried about my delivery.whenever some topic arise about this FILcut the topic.he say will see that and this people are not even issuing my passport their are saying 3 months after the child is born we will arrange for the passport so that even child name can be added. is it like that, only after 3 months we can make??help me pls???
one more thing to add ,my hubby is very loving and caring but when it comes to his father his heart melts down
2007-03-06 05:12:06 · 10 answers · asked by simplewife20 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
I don't understand what you are saying. Be more clear when you write.
2007-03-06 08:55:18 · answer #1 · answered by rocio 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seem to me that your husband has got his priorities all wrong! When a man and woman are joined in marriage the bible says the are to leave their father and mother and be joined as one. Now this is not meaning he literally needs to cut his parents out of his life it just means his spouse needs to be number 1, especially in the midst of expecting a precious new baby. I would think he would be a lot more adamant about being their for the birth.
My heart really goes out to you because I too have children and I know the emotional stress of just being pregnant, You should not have to be dealing with this. Maybe a real heart to heart talk with your hubby might help. He needs to know how you feel!
If all else fails you still have a precious baby coming soon. There is no greater joy than holding your baby for the first time. All you need to know is that baby is yours and will love you unconditionally, As long as you have that baby you will never be alone !!
Best wishes!!
2007-03-06 05:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by c_bearortiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about the visa/passport issue for you.
But, if your FIL has daughters then they should take care of him and not you if you don't get along with him.
If Daddy's boy doesn't want to leave him alone then he should tell his sisters to take daddy in or find daddy a new wife.
Perhaps you can contact immigration yourself and find out exactly when you can add your baby onto your passport.
Hopefully you have some female family to be with you at delivery. No baby myself but I'm sure I'd want my mom around if my husband were off and about.
Good luck
2007-03-06 05:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here is the government web site. I always thought h1b could bring wife and small children, but maybe they don't want to 'create a citizen' by having the child born here (although why they'd enforce that against you and no one else in the world, and why they'd think you couldn't get pregnant again here makes no sense to me.)
Try this web site: uscis.gov
And don't involve your FIL, it would only distress him.
2007-03-06 05:20:02 · answer #4 · answered by DAR 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope everything goes well for you and your family!!!
what you are looking for is an Immigration Attorney, not peoples opinions, on such an IMPORTANT topic.
THIS IS SOMETHING THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE.
so proceed with caution.
HOPEFULLY YOU WILL FIND THE ANSWER YOU ARE LOOKING FOR !!!
best wishes to you and your hubby, and to the soon to be, joy in your life!!!
Best advice I can give you is to look for that info on a US gov web site: uscis.gov
2007-03-06 05:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by DOC Holliday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your husband is on an H-1b visa, he can actually bring his wife and kids with him legally but you cannot work in the US for you're his dependent. your husband's dad is not included in this visa. check the website uscis.gov to better understand the h1-b visa and click on the employment authorization page on the left side and click on H-1b. goodluck and take care.
2007-03-06 06:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would contact the USCIS myself and look into this if I were you.
Maybe your husband is unclear about what needs to be done.
Good luck
http://www.uscis.gov
2007-03-06 06:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, and your Hubby got yourselves into this mess, by not doing the right thing. You can get yourselves out, by doing the right thing.
2007-03-06 06:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by xenypoo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have no idea what you are talking about. If you expect to get a legitimate answer please stop writing like you are text messaging. There are suppose to be spaces between sentences. Your abbreviations are unclear.
Sorry! Good luck.
2007-03-06 05:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get out now!
2007-03-06 05:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by roseysuzy1128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋