When i talk to the guy i like (he lives to provinces away) when i get all emotional he can never find the words to say, he tells me that, but we both know we can never be because of the distance, he is kinda seeing a girl but she confuses him, shes always talking about other guys and never wants to see him, but id give anything yo see him, we talk on the phone and msn and i have such stong feelings for him, im going out to see him with my friend this summer but i dont know what to do..should i let him go? or could we ever make this work?
2007-03-06 05:02:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you could make it work. I dont see why not. Long Distance relationships DO work. I was in one for a long time and im still with the guy and we now live together. He sounds like he might like you back, because if he didnt he would kinda come off cold. But, he is opening up to you about many things so that is really good. You will just have to go up there this summer, and see what happens face-to-face. It should work tho! & If he doesn't get the hint of what your wanting. Maybe, you will just have to open up to him and tell him how you feel and what you want! And see how he reacts! But good luck <3
2007-03-06 05:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, this is a hard, and probaly emotional for you. But you realize how hard it would be to do this. Now im not discouraging you. but sometimes the heart plays tricks on you. And you need to be honest with yourself. Is the relation going to work, or will i end up with a broken heart? Also if the man you like already has a girlfriend, and he is talking to you behind her back, that shows low integrity, because he is not being honest and upfront with his girlfriend. Im not saying he is a bad person, but if he did it with her and is afraid to tell her, he could do it to you. I dont know everything about the situation, but i would not want to be with a person who isnt honest, because thats what you reallly need in a relationship, and thats what he is lacking. Im not telling you either way, but its just some good advice.
<3 Sarah
2007-03-06 05:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Squirrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should distance be a problem ????
I met a wonderful man, he traveled nearly 6 hours to see me on 3 occasions, the third time i went with him.
If you have feelings for each other then you have to give it a go, keeping in touch has never been so easy.
You will regret this if you don`t give it a go, I was in two minds, but i`m very glad that i went for it, I know that i would have regretted it for the rest of my life if i hadn`t taken the steps.
We have been together for nearly 3 years, and we`re getting married in April.
Please try ............. go for it.
2007-03-06 05:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not willing to make a go of it because of the distance you are apart, that will definitely be a problem.
I would say that you should keep things as they are until you go to see him this summer. See how you both feel in person. If that does not stir up enough emotions to make this long distance relationship work than it is time to let go.
Take care,
Troy
2007-03-06 05:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...well I don't really have much advice for you because I'm in the same situation and having trouble knowing what to do myself! The thing that has helped me is knowing that I can just take my time...life doesn't need to be decided right now. Live your life and don't revolve it around him and see what happens. If you are meant to be together...he'll come back into your life, but if you let him know how much he means to you and then just let go and let life happen, you'll never have any regrets.
2007-03-06 05:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really wanted to make it work he would but instead he told u that u guys can never be cuz of the distance. i think u should let him go and find a new guy.
gOOd lUcK <33
2007-03-06 05:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by <hailey> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be called a spare tire. he has a gf and he is giving you stuff about her (not loyal) so i think he is less then a real gentleman. if you want to be taking a back seat and wait your turn you will see that this dude has issues that you are unaware of now..its ok to befriend him but be wary as i think he is playing you
2007-03-06 05:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like u already have problems, y would u want 2 get n a relationship of problems. let him go, find someone closer
2007-03-06 05:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like this person and he likes you,don't lost him....maybe when he is with you he feels confortable and want to be with you all the time to open his heart,maybe he don't have anyone else to speak with,maybe you are the only one who listen to him............although there is a big distance between you,but you are friends...........................good luck
2007-03-06 05:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let him go because yall can't talk face to face and that' s bad you need someone to comfort you when you need to be and he won't be the one.
2007-03-06 05:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋