okayy i am a virgin and i am almost scared to have sex justb ecause of the fact how i might not like it.. is it possible? lol
2007-03-06 04:50:33 · 32 answers · asked by Ashley A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you decide that before the fact, you won't. It may not be good the first time because you don't know what you are doing and your partner may not either. Just relax. Just make sure you can't get pregnant or get a disease and give yourself a break.
2007-03-06 04:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It certainly is possible, Ashley! A virgin's first experience is usually not enjoyable on many levels. Emotionally, you are too nervous and jittery and are mixing things you feel with things you think you are expected to feel. Physically, you and probably your partner are inexperienced and will not know what to do in a way that it will not cause a bad first impression. It is natural to be scared. I am a man and I was scared the first time! There are also a lot of things in the back of your mind (pregnancy, STDs, and a host of others) that do not allow you to have a good first experience. Taking all this into consideration and considering your age, don't you think you would be wise to wait a bit longer before losing your virginity. Not that this will guarantee that your first time will be great, but at least you'll have a little more knowledge of your own body and what the consequences of irresponsible sex are. I don't mean to preach (I know sex is an integral part of growing up healthy) but with the way things are don't you think what I'm saying is a good idea?
2007-03-06 05:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
...how can you not like something that you've never had yet....or at least not until you've at least tried it anyways? C'mon hun...give it a little chance sometime reasonably. I'm respecting your stance here though. Your expectations in advance of all of this sex stuff is quite intriguing. Don't be in a hurry darling. You'll have plenty of time and men to practice with...if you want to! Go easy on yourself babe. Good things always happen slowly...and with time. Kinda like wine babe...ya know?
2007-03-06 04:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your being way too hard on yourself. RELAX Even if you dont enjoy it it wont be the last time you have sex. If you keep overthinking it you definately wont enjoy it. Make sure its with the right person at the right time in your life and protect yourself. Then enjoy what could be a great time.
2007-03-06 04:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared! If you do it with the right person (thats most important) and are relaxed an ready it'l be great! I'm sure u will like it. You feel closer to that person that anyone you have before. Go for it!
2007-03-06 04:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its needs to be perfect that's all, it might hurt or not. No women feels the same thing and since you will be really uncomfortable the first time, it can't be great! Give it a chance, it will come naturally. Good luck on your first time and make sure you use protection.
2007-03-06 04:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible for anyone to like or dislike anything. However, the human race would have died out millions of years ago, if people did not enjoy sex.
2007-03-06 07:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. some people have a condition where sex is painful. if the man in question is careless or doesn't make sure your ready you may not enjoy it. i think you need to wait you sound too young to have sex right now. wait until the right man comes along and it will be perfect.
2007-03-06 04:57:14 · answer #8 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you was having it with my Ex-wife? You'll like it. Just try to wait until you're old enough. If you act like others? You'll end up like others. Take a look at these Questions. And see what I'm talking about.
2007-03-06 04:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are always going to be nervious about your first time cause i was and so was everyone else who has done it.
but you will enjoy it, it is one of those things though that you want to share with a person you really care about.
i and if you smart you will wait for the right man to come along.
good luck. and make the right chioce.
2007-03-06 04:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Michael F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋