Would you all answer this please coz I need to know!!!!?
Guy who I see often and have gotten close to. Knows I'm in the process of splitting with my boyfriend and asked loads of questions about it. Asked if I was ready for another relationship and if I referred to him as an ex. Flirted heavily with me and joked about sexual matters quite a bit bu it was me that started it. Always smiling and making me laugh plus staring but a perfect gentleman and really treats me with respect, the best out of any men I've ever known. He knows I've had a lot of **** off men and I don't want to get hurt and he knows this. I fancy him but I'm a bit thick when it comes to knowing if men fancy me! I need bluntness really. Tell me if you think he likes me a lot and what I should do... Thanks
2007-03-06 04:34:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy has 'I LIKE YOU, PLEASE BE MY GIRL FRIEND' written all over him.
Can't you read the signs?
2007-03-06 04:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by Living Fantasy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he likes you a lot. But if you really want to know for sure, ask him. You can pop up the question very casually or even in a joking manner...or you can ask him seriously.
2007-03-06 12:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys get off on "rescuing" the poor, mistreated girl and then once they have you they treat you like the rest of the jerks did. But then they give you the guilt for how they brought you up out of your despair and use the "where would you be now if I hadn't come into your life" line.
My best advice is to take it slow and be careful. If you feel any red flags in your gut, then take them seriously.
I really hope this guy is a nice guy. God Bless!
2007-03-06 12:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by Buff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he likes u but ur vulnerable. u want us to tell u "sure go for it" but if ur asking us clearly ur confused therefore u may need some time alone from relationships so u can better yourself. if ur in the "process" of a break up then that means u are still UNAVAILABLE. ur technically playing ur soon to b ex regardless of the sh*t he put u thru. Be the better woman and break it off completely cuz the other guy is a rebound and his company is refreshing. Just lay low and get urself together so u dont carry baggage from the past.
2007-03-06 12:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does "process of splitting" mean? Either your are split or you are not. I would not blame this new guy if he were suspicious. This new one sounds rather genuine but he may have doubts about you. Will he be the next to be gradually "split". Do it or don't, right away. Then do everything to assure this new new that that is not your usual thing, to string them along. But the new one sounds promising, the problem is you. So do it or drop the whole thing. Then try to get your act together so new ones will not be wondering.
2007-03-06 12:38:23 · answer #5 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know if he likes you...he probably does, but only you will know if you ask him...YOU should chill out and not get into another relationship...why can't you be friends with him until you are REALLY ready for a boyfriend...you are not even all the way out of the last relationship....chill out...continue with him being a gentlemen to you...your relationship will last longer if he is your best friend.
2007-03-06 12:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that firlting is one BIG clue that there might be flames but try this: tell him u have been "dying" to see a movie in theathers, then act like if u just got a great idea, and ask him if he can accompy u to watch it if he refuses and donst attempt to change the day, he dosent like u, if he accepts dress real nice but decent (men like that) and try to relax enjoy the movie in the middle if he dosent attempt anything (u'll have to take charge) and lay ur head on his shoulder (member this dose take guts for the both of you) so act real chill and dont be to stiff or prudey. who knows u might get some that night ;) GOOD LUCK
2007-03-06 12:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by catkiss17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he does like you a lot. If not why would he even bother asking you those questions about another relationship. I say go for it. He sounds like a real nice guy.
2007-03-06 12:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you go by what he does & not what is said??They all tell you what you want 2 here, So look an see first?? Depends on what you want go slow an see.Just my thought.
2007-03-06 12:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he dose like you. i He is always asking you questions about Ur bf or ex bf then he must like you. it is only obviously. if Ur up to giving him a chance then i think that you should go fro it. then again that if u like him. besides Ur a free women do whatever u want to do.
2007-03-06 12:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by ♥fab♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's waiting for you to dump your boyfriend to make his move! Get with it girl!
2007-03-06 12:39:53 · answer #11 · answered by coolsister95 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋