well she is totally dating this guy in which i hooked her up with and now i am in love with him she cheated on this guy like a thousand times he never cheated on her ok i just broke up with my boyfriend because i love her boyfreind and i told him that she cheated but he wont dump her only she can dump him he loves her but i love him and she is my best friend but i dont want to hurt niether what should i do help my best friend or help the guy i love by telling her to dump him. what should i do im confused please help.
2007-03-06 04:34:02 · 11 answers · asked by ali#1 hotcheka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is more of a moral question than anything else. Where does your heart lie more, with him or her? If you see yourself having a long-term, meanginful relationship with him maybe you should sit with your friend and tell her how you feel. If she is truly your bestfriend, and doesn't love him like you do, maybe she'll step aside for you. Most important, you should not go behind her back, cause you'll be sinking down to her leve. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-06 04:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by richie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your screenname says it all, honey. I don't think you love this guy - I think you're just envious that he is with your "best friend." And some friend you are! If she is your best friend, you would not think if snatching her man. And if she is cheating on him, she's not much, either, is she? Sounds like this dude ought to run away from both of you. The back stabbing and drama is too much. So - were you being faithful to your boyfriend? Just how old are you anyway - 15? I say clean up your act, quit bragging about being a hoebitch and look for your own man. If they break up he's fair game, but maybe he doesn't like a girl who has such a cheap image of herself. Where is your self-pride? Morals? My advice - get counseling and love yourself first.
2007-03-06 12:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest you should back up out of that situation.
First if she is truly your best friend then you would not even consider trying to get with her man regardless of how many times she cheated.
Second of all if you try to get in the middle and choose sides then one of them is gong to be very mad at you. Besides you said that you already told him that she cheated and if he didn't get the clue then he's not going anywhere. That was too much right there.
Just back up and leave that aloe because it's not your position to rat your friend out and then turn around and get with her friend.
Good luck
2007-03-06 12:42:18 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the guy does he like anyone else? just for your information , if he feels the same way about you.
If your friend cheated on him before she will do this again, so just wait until this hit the fan and when they break up then go after him. That way you can be with the one you love and keep your friend ship with your friend.
2007-03-06 12:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can you do? It seems like this guy doesn't reciprocate your feelings. If you've tried reasoning with him, and he's not budging, you have to move on. Maybe they have an open relationship. Let nature take it's course, and they probably won't last very long.You're playing the fool if you try to interfere. OH, and by the way, setting people up and then trying to break them up is bad manners. Didn't your mamma teach you?
2007-03-06 12:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of their business... You have no damn rights to get involved... He's your damn best friend's man, so how the heck can you love and want your best friend's man? What a dirty little brat you are. Get a damn life and go away. They both should dump you.
2007-03-06 12:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have already told the guy...is that being a friend?
you should stay out of it and let time and life take it's course
you sound young enough that you have plenty of years ahead of you to date and fall in and out of love
keep this up and you will have no friends
be cool...
2007-03-06 12:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend to him coz he will find her out eventually. Be there when he does and be a shoulder. Don't try and break them up or he will resent you if he does love her. Just let her get on and ruin it for herself and be there when she does.
2007-03-06 12:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes going to be mad at you at the end, because you never told him about the first time she cheated on him..
2007-03-06 12:46:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a situation you should run far away from cause if he loves her hef doesnt love you that is something that you are going to have to take in.
2007-03-06 12:39:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋