i've been with my girlfriend for a while and we haven't even kissed yet.
A peck on the lips is fine, but we've been together for months and not once have I french kissed her and i'm just worried in case it's something wrong with me.
2007-03-06 04:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry, there probably isn't something wrong with you... and for girls, it's usually kinda nice to date a guy who isn't pressuring you into moving too fast, because most guys do.
If you do want to take it to "another level," wait for the right moment to french her... but stop, of course, if she isn't ready yet and pulls back/keeps her lips way closed.
But of course, be patient. And ask her if she has any concerns about kissing (a lot of teenaged girls, especially, have paranoias of open-mouth kissing).
good luck!
2007-03-06 04:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by -- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro don't worry on how long it takes to do something with a girl. Sometimes the moment just hasn't came, but if you are worried make a move, do a peck and than kiss again opened mouth no tongue if not later try tongue after a few days of open mouth kissing. If she rejects it talk to her ask if doing that was wrong. Most likely she will say I don't know and just be understanding, but talk find out how she feels.
2007-03-06 12:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by doctorgiantsquid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make the first move and she cringes, something's not right. You need to ask her what's on her mind. Maybe she has a moral dilemma, or maybe she's not that into you. However, if you're waiting for her to make a move on you... good luck! A girl never feels she should have to. Her encouragement may be very subtle to you. She'll usually think that if you don't make the first move, something else is on your mind.
2007-03-06 12:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a snail moves faster than you guys
oh come on, not even one real kiss?! sorry to tell you dude, but you can't even call her "girlfriend" in this case. I give my best friends pecks on the lips. but my boyfriend?! oh man, do something. talk to her, ask her what she wants...
but wait... how old are you?!
2007-03-06 12:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move. Set the mood...music, wine, flowers...
2007-03-06 12:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk to her and find out if she would mind pushing things a little maybe she might think if she pushes it you might think bad of her.
2007-03-06 12:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you wash your mouth often ...carry mouth breath sweet along you moight need it
2007-03-06 12:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by danny l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried?
2007-03-06 12:30:12 · answer #8 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋