Im pregnant about 3 weeks now, and i just found out last week. My now ex boyfriend took me out, he said there was something important he wanted to tell me. I was going to tell him, i said his name and i said " i need to tell you something" and he said " no, im osrry , but let me go first" and he broke up with me. And he got up and walked away, so i did not get to tell him. now he is seeing someone else, he had feelings for this girl amber. And so im left here 3 weeks pregnant, and i can't tell him.... i need help! please tell me what i can do!
2007-03-06 04:22:51 · 13 answers · asked by the bests kept secret 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im pregnant about 3 weeks now, and i just found out last week. My now ex boyfriend took me out, he said there was something important he wanted to tell me. I was going to tell him, i said his name and i said " i need to tell you something" and he said " no, im osrry , but let me go first" and he broke up with me. And he got up and walked away, so i did not get to tell him. now he is seeing someone else, he had feelings for this girl amber. And so im left here 3 weeks pregnant, and i can't tell him.... i need help! please tell me what i can do! Im not getting an abortion... one i would never do that and two it's alreday been to long.
2007-03-06 05:12:37 · update #1
Tell him. Then if he want's nothing to with it, make him sign away all parental rights. Then you need to decide if you can keep the baby, or adoption. Think about whats best for baby.
2007-03-06 04:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by megan261980 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what do you want to do about the baby. Do you want to have it? Do you want to keep it? This decision is up to you and only you can make it. I don't know how old you are. That may play a role in this matter. If you are considered a minor then you need to talk to your parents about this. If you are an adult, meaning over 18, you have the option of telling your ex. It probably won't change your status with him. But, he may want to be involved in the baby's life. I think he has a right to know if you decide to keep the baby. If you decide to give it up for adoption, then they will need his permission, I think, in order for that to procede. Being a single parent is hard on an adult, let alone a child. I'm usually pretty harsh on teenage pregnancy. But, for some reason, I feel for you. Probably because he sounds like a real jerk.
2007-03-06 18:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still need to tell him. Just do it in a way that he doesn't think you are doing it to try to get him back. Tell him, you are not expecting him to come back to you but he needs to know that you are pregnant. He's the father, so he needs to know. You didn't do this on your own. I would call him and tell him that you didn't get a chance to tell him what you needed to the night you broke up. Ask him to meet you somewhere and talk to him. If he won't do that, you will have to do it over the phone. But just try to do it in a way that he doesn't feel like you are trapping him with the news. The baby is his responsibility too whether or not you are together.
2007-03-06 12:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT?! Are you crazy? You have to tell him, he has every right to know and you ahve every right to receive his support. He might loose his relationship to amber but a baby is more important. Sit with him and tell him that you are pregnant and even if he doesnt want to be with you he needs to be in his babys life. You are going to need all the support you can get.
2007-03-06 12:29:05 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all how old are you. tell the man that you are pregnant so when the baby is here you will know if he going to help or not. if not i hope he have a job so you can get some help and if you could get his SS number that way you don't have to go though a lot of problems remember always get that number when you are having sex with these man
2007-03-06 12:37:14 · answer #5 · answered by nanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him because he needs to know. Then u need to decide what YOU want. Do u want to keep ur baby? Do u want him back in ur life? Seeing as how he is acting very irresponsible, I wouldnt take him back, but I would try to keep him in the baby's life (If u decide to keep it). It's completely up to you...good luck!
2007-03-06 12:33:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he sounds like a loser, and you should do what's best for you and the baby, if you dont want to keep it, or if you cant take care of it, please dont killl the baby, put it for a adpotion, or maybe ask someone in your family for help, just do what's right for you and the baby.
2007-03-06 12:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and then take him to court. he needs to help you with support, medical etc. if he doesnt want to be with too bad but dont put the child in the middle. he has the right to know.
2007-03-06 12:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by mikentammy76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its up to u but it isnt nice to get rid of a baby, poor thing why dont u tell ur parents and ask what to do they no u better and would no wat to do- dont get pressured into something that u dont want to do. it might also help telling that guy anyway he has a right to no even iff he is a ***. hope i have helped
2007-03-06 12:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Wild-@-Heart ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
file you court paper now!!!! for child support sole custody and donat worry about hime he is a looser . stay strong
2007-03-06 12:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋