I and my girlfriend are getting married in three months. But she's in an emotional relationship with her coworker. As far I know they didn't have sex. He tells her he's having sex with other girls but he says he's in love with her anyways. That makes my girlfriend real upset. Lately she started overeacting and getting upset over minor things I say and do, that never seemed to bother her before. I think I should dump her and cancel the wedding but I can't cuz I've gotten too attached to her emotionally and I love her...
2007-03-06 04:19:57 · 7 answers · asked by Andrew J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to hear that...it puts you in a tough situation. My opinion would be to at least cancel the wedding for now. See if you guys can have one last talk to try to salvage communication...if not then dump her as well. It doesn't seem like she's too willing to change, and she's already lashing out at you so it means she's very emotionally attached to the other guy. If she really loved you she would try to change...however I don't know if you'd ever be able to gain the trust since she will work with this guy all the time. it's easy for me to say...but get out on your own surround yourself with happy things and good support and find yourself a woman that will devote their love and marry you. Goodluck.
2007-03-06 04:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that your in this situation. Whenever I ask a question about my relationship online, I usually know the answer and I just want to confirm it. From what you have said, I think that its time to pack up and GOOOOO!!!! or at least postpone the wedding.
2007-03-06 04:26:03 · answer #2 · answered by megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run for the hills, my friend!!! Sounds like you've got a loony on your hands. What the hell is an emotional relationship, anyway?
2007-03-06 04:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to be honest with you and herself, you don't want to marry her if she's gonna start cheating or decides to take off with this guy. Tell her to make up her mind is it you or him. Make her choose before it becomes a mistake.
2007-03-06 04:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has emotional feelings towards anyone but you, you should call off the wedding.
2007-03-06 04:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by candidworker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is totally into the other guy; she just doesn't want to cheat. However, what she is doing is a form of cheating. Dump her!
2007-03-06 04:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is this.. get a new girl she aint worth it man duh
2007-03-06 05:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by Because I'm Kool 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋