I've been in a relationship for a while now. He says he feels depressed and is going through a lot. What advice do I give him to help him cheer up?? He says he doesn't want to have to go to others for advice, he wants my advice. I do love him but I am lost of words. Do you have any??? (ONLY positive ones please)
2007-03-06 04:19:10 · 10 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you love him, that he's the best boyfriend, and tell him that you'll always be there for him, and he can tell you anything and tell him that he means the world to you, tell him that how great he takes care of you, and tell him how he makes you feel. And tell him he's the only one in your life.
2007-03-06 04:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...everyone goes through allot of stuff in their lives darling...so what's up with his stuff originally? Depressed???....about what really? I think you have the right as his woman, to go out on a limb and ask him a few pertinent questions here hun. Depression takes on the look of many odd and revealing behaviors seriously. We don't want him blaming you for any of his own bad behaviors here hun. People have a tendency to make excuses not to do stuff,...especially when they're not feeling mentally well and right. He might possibly need to see a therapist maybe. I believe honesty with yourself will tell you he 's just kinda making excuses for his own bad self really. I know you love him to death here darling...maybe that's his issue. Too much too quickly and too hurriedly makes honey feel like he's being a little bit smothered to death possibly. Give him a little break hun. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
2007-03-06 04:31:18 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know what the issues are that he is going through that are making him depressed? If you do, work off of those for supportive answers for him. If it's really serious, he needs to see a doctor for therapy or anti-depressants. Depending what the doctor chooses for him. You can't do it for him if it's a serious depression. Just be there to support him and listen.
2007-03-06 04:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just an answer without knowing what the whole situation is.....so take it for what its worth..... find out from him what the problem is, if you are in love with him your heart will lead you in how to help him, just make sure he knows that you are there for him and you love him. make sure you are ready to handle the situation also be strong for him and you it may take alot but love will carry you through good luck and hope lots of happiness are in store for you and him
2007-03-06 04:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by galion2_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much information in your question about why he is depressed, but I think you can comfort him by telling him that life is too short to live it in saddness and depression. Days pass by so quickly that we don't notice that they are days that we will never be able to make up for. Tell him you love him and you are there to help him through his ordeal until he is out of it. Make yourself available for him and show him that you are committed to him.
2007-03-06 04:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that he should see a docter for anti-deppressants. or you could set up a surprise dinner or something to cheer him up. i've never been in this kind of situation soo im sry if these dont help. :)
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2007-03-06 04:25:39 · answer #6 · answered by Christa...is Awesome =]] lol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
advice for him to see a doctor if he always depressed ..he might suffer from a illness --depression
2007-03-06 04:22:40 · answer #7 · answered by danny l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph I agree with danny
2007-03-06 04:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can say, just let him know whatever it is you are going to be there for him, and it will be ok.
2007-03-06 04:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by Stac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him everything is going to be okay. and let him know that you are there for him no matter wat.
2007-03-06 04:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by tonib1989 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋