Just knowing that they sleep around alot is just nasty. I just think STD's and bugs. How do you get over that?
2007-03-06 04:16:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don know
that's real real gross
it's worst than chewing somebody else's gum
it's worst than licking the sidewalk
it's worst than licking the toilet
lol. go visit the doc
2007-03-06 04:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way to get over that is either don't have sex with any one or make your partner wear a condom.
Those are the only two ways that I can tell you to get past that.
There really isn't any way other than these two answers.
Because you are right to be afraid of people who have had numerous partners, knowing a person may be sleeping around is scary.
Good for you to at least be thinking about your health.
Stay safe and well. Good luck to you.
2007-03-06 04:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't just STD's, it is knowing you are probably in the middle of a long line. If he hasn't stayed with his other sex partners, what chance is there he will stay with you? Really gross. Really risky. Don't get over it. Get out. Find someone who wants you!!
2007-03-06 04:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's better not to even open that Pandora's Box. Nothing good can come out of knowing how many partners your partner has had. But, if you are in that situation I would say you both go and get tested. That's what me and my ex did after sharing the roster. We both felt much better after doing it. Sure their will still be problems with the answers to that question, but getting tested will ease both of your minds.
2007-03-06 04:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get your blood tested; both of you...together if you don't trust him.
The number of partners is never really the issue. Some people say the more they've had, the better they wll be in bed. Not necessarily true, but it's a theory.
2007-03-06 04:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost many great girls because I wasn't sure if I was as 'good' as her exes, from my experience, just try not to let it bother you.
Also, if you're not sure about STDs, ask them politely if they would mind getting tested.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-06 04:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't say my bf has had that many partners . . . neither have I considering my age. If you're with someone that has been really active with just anyone you have to either accept that or move on.
2007-03-06 04:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how many. but yeah. He's getting tested. I don't want STD's
2007-03-06 04:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people dont get over it, but some people do....i mean yeah its hard but if it really bothers you that much, find someone else that hasnt had alot of sex parnters then
2007-03-06 04:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Melyssa's Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive only been with one person so when i got with my current boyfriend who i still havent had sex with i asked...at first it bothered if it was more than 3 but then i found out they werent one night stands..yea it was gross at first
2007-03-06 04:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by nik-nat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋