he did not really have the proper upbringing and has not had any parental (especially paternal) guidance since his early teenage years.
although i don't have the 100% accurate proof, the insecurities are mounting day by day that i live with him. I could still find a logical reason to think that he's on his healing process, but the question is do i have to stay if he needs me by his side? i love him, but i really really don't want to get hurt.
2007-03-06 04:08:41 · 9 answers · asked by kuklaa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how long you have been with him. I wouldn't dump him just because he is bisexual. My ex (he's my ex because he married another woman) told me three years into the relationship at 3 o'clock in the morning at a Denny's. It took a lot of guts, especially since no one knew. Bisexual guys still like women. If he can be honest with you about I say stay with him and see how things go. If he can't then leave because you deserve someone who is honest.
2007-03-06 04:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think he might be bi? Has he started borrowing commenting on guys butts or what? If he is using moisturiser or paying more attention to his grooming then that is all to the good. Unless you have solid proof then I wouldn't say anything to him you might totally offend him and lose him in the long run. Perhaps if he has been brought up mostly in a female rich environment then he knows how to relate to girls better than other guys you have been with which DOES NOT make him bisexual.
My guy has 4 sisters and he knows to bring me hot water bottles when I have my period and he is very in tune with my feelings. I think that is a bonus personally and he has been trained to respect women from a very early age. He also has 3 kids from his previous marriage and we have one on the way. And I KNOW he is in no way bi even though he does moisturise :)
2007-03-06 04:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, having a proper or improper upbringing does not determine a person's sexuality.
Secondly, who cares if he is bi-sexual. He's still in a relationship with you. Just because someone is bi does not mean they're just gonna start cheating on you with other men. If he was straight you wouldn't suspect him of cheating on you with a bunch of other women, would you? This is no different.
Quit treating him like he has a disease.
2007-03-14 04:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 16:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love him then ask him. If he loves you he'll open up. Being honest is always the best and if what you think is true... then he will need you to really understand and be there for him.
Good Luck!
2007-03-06 04:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Only Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful, because I KNEW my boyfriend was bi (EX boyfriend now) and he must have gotten around because he gave me herpes. Of course, you don't have to stay with him. It sounds like he needs time to be by himself and not in a relationship, to sort things out.
2007-03-06 04:15:13 · answer #6 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got the issues.
Bi-sexulaity is what it is, and "on the right path" or whatever is nasty judgment on your part.
If you're that worried, move on.
I had to!
2007-03-06 04:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he's bisexual, he likes girls, too.
don't worry then. he still likes ya. LOL
2007-03-06 04:13:36 · answer #8 · answered by lkjgfyfukh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a new b/f...
2007-03-06 04:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋