So last nite me & my Man was hangin out with his friends, they were in the backseat & started talking about me. How I sound sexy over the phone when I talk in da background & how I am sexy & so on & I mean it was ovious enough for me to get it I am quiet sure my Man got it, why didnt he say anything? I mean I loved every bit of it cause I was getting some attention (& my boyfriend constantly nags about me) & that it was positive...but really why would a man act like that?
2007-03-06 04:08:02 · 9 answers · asked by $D*Da*Spoild*1$ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hell yea I liked it why not? He coud have said "Don't be talking bout my girl like that I am rite here" or "if you feel like that about her why dont you tell her strait up instead of mubeling in da backseat" or simply just "Stop dis is my WOMAN we been together for almost 2 years, respect!" you know?
2007-03-06 04:19:01 · update #1
they are boosting him up and really saying that you are alright and OK for him to be with never mind how they say it because is they didn't like you they would also let him know it. and you wouldn't be going out with them at all. Even if he went which he would. Leaving you on your own.
So they are really complementing you try to see that way. Good on you girl you got their approval
2007-03-06 04:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by sarell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs some cajones, my friend.
BUT to tell the truth-
My BF was a little hesitant to say anything, until I todl him that I'm only joking or smiling on the outside.
Once I told him how I felt, he publically stood up for me. With a little bit of a smile, not too harsh. And the men deal with it now.
And it was no where near as graphic as that, btw.
2007-03-06 04:11:42 · answer #2 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "man" is a total azzhole, that's why. It's awfully sad when you have a BF and the only thing that makes you feel like you're getting anything positive is when his friends make comments about you behind your back.
2007-03-06 04:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's feeding his ego. His friends think you're sexy so he's feeling like some kind of legend. It may seem positive but it's really disrespectful and you should talk to him about it. I mean, guys will always be guys and they'll have their locker room talk and all that but he should be more mindful of your feelings.
2007-03-06 04:16:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a jerk,or he knows they are and didn't want to fuel the fire,know what I mean,and it was positive things they said,and you didn't say anything,say something to him and see what happens.
2007-03-06 05:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes proud that hes got u n they dont but still it is alil weirid.hat he wont even say anything
2007-03-06 04:12:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he realized his friends were teasing him and not you. tell him you were uncomfortable. i would also tell him that even though his friends are fun i would like to go out with just him sometimes.
2007-03-06 04:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
,u should b happy there sayin these things,there paying u a complament he knows you r his and is proud that you r with him and not them.if they were beiin nasty then it would be different.
2007-03-06 04:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by michellejoryeff j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You liked it so what did you want him to say?
2007-03-06 04:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by ann t 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋