Ok, so at school me and my friend were talking, right? Ok, well a teacher was behind us & I looked back twice. She’s an attractive teacher and my voice changed kinda got louder about what I was talking about, maybe to impress her? I’m not sure,Atleast I sorta think it did, i'm not even sure. I didn't even say anything to her, I have a gf and I feel guiilty? I over think things, does this make any sense? did I do anything wrong? I wouldn’t cheat on her if I could with anyone, but why do I feel guilty about this ?, is it just my mind messing with me and I should relax? this isn't the first time my thoughts have messed with my head, I didnt' even do it on purpose.
2007-03-06 03:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you didn't do anything wrong. Only you know what you did. Don't over-analyze things so much - you'll make youself crazy.
2007-03-06 03:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by f w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you did anything wrong. I think it's completely normal to look (twice!) at things we admire, and it's not as if anything's going to happen between you & your teacher (or movie star or person walking down the street in other cases!)
Like the old saying goes, "You can look but you can't touch!"
Just remember, it's a silly superficial thing, we're only human. What you and you girlfriend have is something different & special, so I wouldn't worry about it at all!
2007-03-06 12:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Em 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reaction can be easily compared to as that of involuntry muscels or to the reflex actions performed by some of the muscles of the body.
Well there is nothing that you should feel guilty about, your loud voice was only a symbol of expression of your attraction, it can not and should not be compared to cheating on your relationship.
Buddy you were just human, we all are exposed to similar simulations, nothing abnormal, infact you should be happy that you behaved very natural.
2007-03-06 11:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by Brave Heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well i dont think you did anything wrong as you said you wouldnt cheat on her well if that is true than she may already know that and then she trust you well people will always find others attractive it happens but just forget about it it isnt like anything happend and i dont kow but i would say you didnt want anything to happen dont let it get you because your gf my sesspect something if you act differnt all the time
2007-03-06 11:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by crazy girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound normal and your heads will ALWAYs mess with you, that's human, get used to it, and try not to worry about it too much. Do something nice for your g/f and enjoy her company. That will probably help you feel better too.
2007-03-06 11:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill out. she noticed, but the more attention you give it the more attention she'll give it. So you looked at a woman. Get over it. You see them all the time. The guilt is probably stemming from your thoughts which only you know.
2007-03-06 12:05:13 · answer #6 · answered by A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no you didnt do anything wrong you just need to relax and calm down.your just "paranoid" if thats the right word for it...maybe you're afraid that you ARE hurting your girlfriend but you really arent so loosen up bud..(^_^)
2007-03-06 11:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by cathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you have a chance with the teacher but if you do think about it really hard because if you love your girlfriend you wouldnt be thinking about things like that.
2007-03-06 11:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by sexypinklips053004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a guy... you cant help it all the time, whenever i catch my eyes wandering i feel guilty to, so i just give myself a dead leg everytime i do it
2007-03-06 11:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you did!
2007-03-06 11:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋