2007-03-06 03:34:44 · 22 answers · asked by aisha j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not cool, why would he go and do that he seems a little careless and self-centered. I wouldn't harp on it too long hes not worth it.
2007-03-06 03:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Juhboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pregnancy made him think about what was going on in his life and maybe he dicided that you and he werent such a good thing so when you had a miscarriage he just started over completely. It really hurts I know. And with having just miscarried your hormones are all a flutter so to speak. Take care of your self and realize that if he could leave you right now when you are so vulnerable then he wasnt the guy you wanted or needed anyway. Most guys would not have been able to do that -its too cruel. You deserve a good guy keep looking for him you will find him!!Good luck and if you start to have feelings of suicide or anything to harm your self =GET HELP. It happens to lots of people and no shame in getting some help when you have a hard knock time in your life.
2007-03-06 03:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your boyfriend broke up with you because you had a miscarriage. he is hurting right now and needs time. think about your relationship. was it a serious and loving relationship, or was it a casual dating relationship? a lot of times people get pregnant with partners that are not someone they wish to marry and be with the rest of there life. this would be a catalist to walk away from the relationship without being trapped into a relationship.
if it was a forever love type relationship give him time and if it is meant to be he will be back.
please practice safe sex from now on. babys deserve to be born to two caring adults. I am not trying to hurt you but be honest with youself and examine the relationship for what it was.
i am very sorry you lost your baby. i hope you have someone to talk too.
2007-03-06 03:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'd like to say sorry for the miscarriage and I hope you are recovering well. As for the guy is such an idiot!! Thank God you saw his true colours before the relationship had gone any further. It's sad it had to be this way, but it'll all work itself out and you'll find someone who knows your worth.
2007-03-06 03:47:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then you should consider it a relief. sounds like he didn't want this child in the first place and even if you didn't have a miscarriage(which i am very sorry to hear) he prolly wouldn't have stuck around very long anyways. sweetie next time use protection and find a man you can count on to be there for you through the good, bad and rough times. take care and good luck... once again i am sorry for your loss.
2007-03-06 03:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by mmh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember that everything happens for a reason and if he dumped you the after you told him that you had a miscarriage than you should count your blessings and find someone who is worthy of you.
2007-03-06 03:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Second, your boyfriend is a piece of crap for leaving you--especially right now when you need him most. Lose him and find a REAL man who will treat you like gold. Good luck and God bless.
2007-03-06 03:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sodas♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably scared about the pregnancy in the first place, feels relieved that you are not having a baby and bolted. Nice guy! Be happy your free of him he would make a horrible husband.
2007-03-06 03:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Devdude 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That was cruel. You deserve someone who will be there for you during a tough time like that. If that's the kind of guy he is then you are better off without him.
2007-03-06 03:45:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really didn't want to be with you and is using the baby as his escape. Be grateful he left you! Just imagine the type of father or husband he'd be! Take time to focus on yourself and forget about him.
2007-03-06 04:09:14 · answer #10 · answered by beeslady115 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋