it was not the best friendship i had but i liked him so much- the relation is over but i do think about him most of the time & feel so sad & able to do much - any ideas
2007-03-06 03:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i understand. It still hurts inside right? I know its difficult to forget someone when you still love him. Time will heal. Believe me. I hv been through it last yr and its been a year now and I am still trying to forget him completely. He is slowly disappearing in my thoughts each day. Its like a balloon, when we let it go, we juz hv no other choice to get it back coz it doesnt belong to you. Hi look forward and occupy yrself with things and you will slowly forget the pain. Be strong and move on with yr life. Cheerup okie
2007-03-06 03:48:47 · answer #1 · answered by Truesurvival 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that you feel that way. But there is really nothing anyone can do about this. We all feel sad when good things end and you are bound to feel this way for some time. It will get better after a while. Just focus on yourself and try to meet new people, because believe me, just as you met him, you will also meet someone new. So, keep your chin up, keep busy (so you don't think about him all the time) and it will get better soon.
2007-03-06 03:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time for yourself. Write down how you are feeling about him and different things that you want to tell him. Put this paper away for a few days, then take it back out and re-read it. If you are still feeling this way then tell him. But once you tell him let it be out of your hands. Everything happens for a reason. Heartache is the worst feeling in the world but you can get through it!
2007-03-06 03:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u might try to FORGET him
sorry not trying to hurt u more bur get into something that will benefit you and really get busy in it so u can really get aover your hurt and ponderings
hope you the best escape be sure to pray it out of your system too I here it works better than doctors
stay sweet you are who you are its not a bad thing to think of someone special just don't let it be a henderance in your life
2007-03-06 03:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by manoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel its like they sucked the energy out of you. You dont feel like doing anything else. There is no easy way to forget someone just take it at your own time. Dont preassure yourself. Forgetting its not easy and it hurts. Just think of something funny when you start feeling the pain.
2007-03-06 03:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jaizmin P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are u? If young then dont worry about it there are plenty of guys out there. If old like after 25 or so see if you can mend something outta it and learn for the next guy that comes along.
2007-03-06 03:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him or write him and tell him you were thinking about him. It will make you feel better and you may actually get a positive response from him since he is probably feeling the same way.
2007-03-06 03:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i got one! It was puppy love nothing serious. sure you feel like your whole world evolved around him but not really. So turn up one of your favorites wildly wicked awsome songs loud and start to live.
2007-03-06 03:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are making this hard on yourself. you yourself say it was not the best friendship. stop grieving and get out there and be happy with the friends you have.
2007-03-06 03:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will heal it.
. try some online dating... at least you'll get some free dinners out of it..
and remember when the check comes..look the other way or go to the bathroom.
right girls????
2007-03-06 03:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋