had a friend and,helped with probelms with her BF, made few music cds, talked to her when no1 else would, help her on projects. You know all around nice guy stuff. One night i was talking to her though IM's and she said something to me, well it goes like this.
"Im thinking about taking John's Advice so bye"
And that was it after everything i done for her boom, gone.
Not like shes a stuck up or anything or the most popular girl in school. But just like that, ended. Ouch eh?
2007-03-06 03:27:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me just add that this person is all around nice, and she has said things through IM's that I doubt any else knows.
Cant give any details, but let just say if these things were to get back to her bf she thinks that he would break up w/ her.
But according to her BF, even if i did tell him he wont break up with her for the world. and john is in 1 of my tech classes, and me and her would always poke fun at him. hey did always say that i would get u back 1 day........
There lots of stuff here going on and i just feel very stressed atm. so srry for the unneat grammer.
2007-03-06 03:57:58 · update #1
Maybe John was jealous our friendship. I think that maybe you need to try and find out what Johns advise was. Obviously she was talking to another about you. Which could be a good sign. But then again some say nice guys finish last. Sorry to say that. But My advise would be to find out what she was talking to John about and why. Would help tremendously on the whole situation. If shes not talking to you, just email her and give her time to respond to it.
2007-03-06 03:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you: It isnt a good friendship and let me tell you why. There a some selfish people that use people when they are in need. A clear sign is that she was ungreatful since she seemed to forget all the things you did to her. My ex (finally ex) was (or is like that). Everytime he is depressed or hurt he would come to me when, and I quote "the world turned its back on him" and i would nurture him, care for, and basically help put the pieces back together....until he fell better and moved on. Then he would go through the same thing and come back. The reason i got hurt was because i kept helping KNOWING he would do the same thing. Dont you allow that to happen to you. She stopped talking? Good riddance. I know it hurts but, never suffer for someone who wont suffer for you. And a question i have for you.....do you like her as more than a friend? It seemed that way, either way im sorry and hope you get over this.
Take care and good luck.
2007-03-06 11:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's mean. I wonder what she told John and what kind of advice he gave her. Either way, that's not how friends treat each other. You were so nice! Don't let her walk all over you. Just let her go. But beware, she'll be back when she's lonely again.
2007-03-06 11:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like she has been talking to John about you, maybe she thinks your doing all this stuff for her to get her for yourself and maybe she just wants to be friends so she just stopped everything all together...She doesn't sound to stable anyways your better off without her!
2007-03-06 11:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a good man. Find yourself another one.
P/S: I'm having almost same thing as you, help her out with her BF, help her on school homeworks and others, but we are still friends...
2007-03-06 11:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't worth your time, effort, or your friendship!
2007-03-06 11:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by licydechorerra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋