My 24 yr old daughter just falls over in the floor and dies. She leaves 3 children and a good husband, but so many questions. It's only been 3 weeks and it seems to get harder and harder. Her brother is in jail because of accusations made against him by someone he thought was his friends, and the law did not even aknowledge the judges order to transport him to his sisters funeral. I don't know where to go with this much less how I am suppose to feel. HELP!!!!!
2007-03-06 03:25:35 · 7 answers · asked by trish w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am so sorry to hear of your troubles, I know personly what it is like to loose a child. My only advice to you is look after yourself for the sake of your grandchildren they and their daddy needs you more than ever now. As for your son at least where he is ,you know he is safe and sound. That is a problem to sort out for another day,but for now seek comfort in your grandchildren
2007-03-06 03:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Hilary S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all my heart cries for you! I don't know how, or when but I do know that their is a lifting from on High! Baby God is all the strength you need. GOD CAN AND WILL FIX THIS!!! I dare you to put all of your trust in Him! and send me a email back. I don't care how dark things get. I promise He will take care of you. I have been through so much in my 28 yrs and He has been my help and my Health. My mom has almost lost me twice. But I am here for a reason Just as this to tell you that God is what you allow him to be!! I love you I love you and just love on those Grand-babies and your son-in-law. Find strength in everything! Cry, Pray and remember the good and Bad things.
2007-03-06 11:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly no one knows what kind of pain you are in at the moment - you have gone thru a hard time and I am sorry for that
Take some time, even if just a few minutes to have a good cry for your daughter. Do what you can to help your son in law and the children being with them will make you think more of her but it will also help in mourning her though it will take some time.
As to your son do your best to see him when ever you can and try to help him out with his situation as you go.
Even though your mind is on them do your best to keep your mind busy with other things
2007-03-06 11:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now the best thing is to not worry about your son missing the funeral. nothing can change that. at some point write a letter to the judge and just tell him how much it hurt that your son could not be there for his sisters funeral. just grieve for the daughter you lost. he may not know that his order was ignored. you can be there for your son but right now you need to be there for yourself. talk to your pastor. if you do not go to church then i suggest just calling a pastor in your town and ask for counselling. losts of towns have grieving groups and it helps to talk to others who are going through the same thing.
i will be praying you receive strength and guidance.
2007-03-06 11:34:51 · answer #4 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On my knees and letting go and let GOD hes been there this hole time waiting for you to come to him so he casn comfort you just really seek him with your whole heart !!!! Hes waiting have FAITH and believe he will never leave you nor forsake you !! Give him a try what do you have to loose!!!GOD BLESS YOU !!!
2007-03-06 11:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by JINE GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need someone to get all your pain out.Talk to someone like a conselar or someone profesional.Cause what you may need is to get all that pain that you are carring and maybe you can get more strength and get some pain out.
2007-03-06 11:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Dulce O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss and grief. Please get professional help and try praying. No human can go through all this alone. May God Bless you.
2007-03-06 11:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋