um okay so i am almost 15 and he is almost 18 and he is a white surpremist...everyone one i know is saying to dump him...well the older ppl i know and all my friends are saying he is f-king sexy what can happen lol... but i love him to death and my parents don't really like him at all but like when im with him i feel so protected and he is sooo nice and his friends are the nicest guys i have ever met and they preotect me. but they're all extreamly racist and they are NOT poser nazis trust me.... but what do i do i love him and he is getting me into trouble...if ur christias u know what i mean when i say that were doing stuff that shouldn't be done until you are married....lol and if your reading this looking at the age i know he can go to jail for doing that but don't worry he is not forcing me i just don't kno what to do..help me...
2007-03-06 03:25:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You know the right thing to do but you are ignoring that. What can we say to convince you when your parents can't.
2007-03-06 03:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by Fish <>< 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off, do you think it's cute that he's a racist. Why would you date someone that has low self esteem, that's why he's a racist. You need to grow up and get some damn common sense, just because you are 15 yrs old doesn't mean you can't think for your damn self. Do you believe in anything that he talks about? Do you like hating people for no reasons? who cares if he makes you feel protected that's what your father is for, little girl. he is on a whole other level than you are, he's a grown as man, having sex with a 15yr old that he probably won't be with for long becuase as soon as something better rolls along that swoons to every word he says he done with your a**. What makes you think hes going to stay with you if he knocks you up. Grow up kid, go to school, do some homework or something. stop being pressed over this loser!!
2007-03-06 12:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by gkm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all a 15 year old should not be dating a 18 year old, he is legally an adult and you are a child. And as for the white supremacist thing he will bring misery and possibly even violence in your life and no normal person wants that do they? Looks are not everything there are plenty of good looking men out there with intelligence. I think your parents should monitor your life more than they are doing. I feel bad for you, you are headed in the wrong direction in life. Most white supremacists are unintellegent people and they try to spread the word but, they don't have nothing backing their thoughts, only violence and that is just not the way to be in this world. Some advice-date someone your own age and get someone who cares for humanity.
2007-03-06 11:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child, please! Are you out of your mind? If you didn't already know that everything about being with this guy was totally wrong, then you wouldn't have asked the question in the first place. You know damn well that this guy is the worst possible person for you to be with. Why on earth would you be involved with someone that hateful? You aren't in love with him. If you were, then you wouldn't be having all these doubts about him and asking other people what you should do. You are 15. You are way too young and you don't have enough experience to say that you are in love with anyone, let alone to be screwing around with anyone. 15 is, however, old enough to know when something is wrong. If your parents say they don't like this guy and that they don't want you seeing him, then you shouldn't be with him. You know what you need to do. Dump him!
2007-03-06 11:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So first off your not even 15 years old and are having sex? And how do you know what love is at 14 years old? Why dont you dump him and wait till you are older to get a boyfriend? Why do you think everyone is saying dump him? Its because you are a child and he could go to jail for this. If he is so great of a person he would not be with a child. If you wont end it with him your parents need to step in before you get pregnant and your great boyfriend ends up in jail. You really need to grow up, get some self respect and some morals before you need to have a boyfriend.
2007-03-06 11:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by jeenie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be loved by someone who hates?
On top of this your b/f is ignorant, and immature, if you are w/ him you support him and his race issues, so that makes you racist yourself.
And you shouldn't be having sex 1 its against gods law and 2 you are to young.
You know he is not right for the way he feels against people so why would you stay? Would you stay w/ him if he was a killer? NO so why would you stay with a person who harbors hatred in their heart? Killers harbor hatred as well.
If you 2 are together and he does something against the law because of someones race you can go to jail along w/ him. Think about it. Its not that serious, chances are yall won't be together 6 months from now. Your a teenager. Ive been their.
2007-03-06 11:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by PW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, back up..."he's not forcing me"...doesnt matter, baby girl, that's still statuatory rape in just about every state in the union.
Good luck with that, make sure you take precautions so you don't become pregnant, I'm sure someone's just itching to put him behind bars for something and THAT could be it!
As far as the whole white-supremacist thing goes...Watch American History X, it's a movie from a few years ago. See where you fit in, in the movie.
And then dump the chump. He's going down the wrong road, and jesus wont protect a hater, end of story.
2007-03-06 11:29:43 · answer #7 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 8⤊ 1⤋
As suggested above, "Watch American History X" and maybe SCHINDLER'S LIST too and let him know you are a compassionate person towards oppressed people and he may end up wanting to dump you.
There is NO place for bigotry and racism in modern society anymore.
Also, isn't 18 kinda old for someone your age?
2007-03-06 11:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by S D Modiano 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that anyone at fourteen (no, nearly fifteen is not better so just say your age) would think they were responsible and mature enough to have sex! Do you know how many women this man (yes, man. He's eighteen, kid) has banged? On top of that, and more importantly, he's a white supremist. That is completely unacceptable. It's not 1850 anymore. He needs to grow up and so do you. Dump him and seek help for yourself.
2007-03-07 14:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be paying attention to the class you're in and get off Y! Answers. Consider the consequences of your actions and how they'll affect your future - relationship with your parents, relationship with your friends, your wellbeing, etc.). For more than the next few hours. What do you want our of life? You've got to live the life you want and not settle for just parts of it that seem right for now.
2007-03-06 11:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For one, the sex is clouding your eyes. It may seem beautiful but it is taking you down a twisted path.
If you are trying to change him so you will be happy, that is a dead end, nearly all mature people will tell you that..
If you are hoping he will change so he will be happy, that is fine.
See if he loves you without the sex.
Stay his friend, if you can, and see what that friendship is like.
2007-03-06 11:35:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋