2007-03-06 03:24:13 · 24 answers · asked by rAiNbOw Wh0r3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes! Please don't confuse physical attraction or infatuation for Love. The biggest mistake people make is projecting what they want out of situation instead of taking the time to see if there's enough already there to make a relationship. Plus, if he's like most men, if you throw this on him now I can almost guarantee that the relationship will come to a screeching halt or at least slow down considerably.
It's only been two weeks. You can't possibly know enough about this guy to determine if it's love or not. Slow down! Relax! What's the hurry?
2007-03-06 03:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually is not a good idea. What tends to happen is that the object of your affection becomes a little scared. What happens is once you tell them you love them they begin to wonder if they love you, could they love you, and why do or don't they. It can put too much pressure on both parties involved. Take time and enjoy learning new things about each other. If you think you love the person then instead of voicing that love, go ahead and show them your love for them with your actions. If they reciprocate said actions then you know love is brewing. If they do not then it might be time to rethink what you have with this person.
2007-03-06 03:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by goodtymes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's way too early. You don't know the person well enough to know that for sure. You are just in the beginning of the relationship. You say those 3 words and more than likely, you will chase the person away. Or he will think that means you are ready to sleep with him and take full advantage. Take your time and really get to know him first before you do anything you can't change.
2007-03-06 03:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by debrenee211 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!! how can you decide if you love someone after 2 weeks? my bf and i said i love you to each other a month into the relationship after talking over 8 hours a day for 2 months on the phone, online, pretty much every communication way possible. Yet now we've been together for nearly 4 months and i just realized what love is yesterday, it takes time to understand.
2007-03-06 03:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by sweethyedreamer213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is totally too early. No one can fully know/understand another in so short a time. Sit back a while and look at the person objectively. Wait and see if they are really as you perceive them to be. Time will tell.
2007-03-06 03:33:55 · answer #5 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Do you really love this person? Or are you high on the new relationship? Love comes from respect and knowing a person. Truly, how much about this person do you really know after only 2 weeks?
2007-03-06 03:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by Paula S 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
yes 2 weeks is still too early for you to tell somebody you love them because technically you dont know that person and you want to know the person you say i love you too
2007-03-06 03:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by somebodyssexygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably.. how old are you??? it's probably puppy love.. when we are young such feeling are mostly chemical reactions in the brain and are widely confused as 'love'..when young, as shown by all the teenage pregnancy . it's probably just infatuation mixed with excitement.. love takes a long time to grow when you are mature.
go ahead and tell him..if you fell you need to...but 'learn from it' when it does not work out.. try not to make the same mistake over and over..(repetitive cycles).. and st ourself up for a life of disappointment.. the that path leads to the dark side,, forever will it rule your destiny.
2007-03-06 03:33:59 · answer #8 · answered by Derrick Zooolander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little early .... yes
get to know them more before you say it
and always make sure that other person feels the same way
2007-03-06 03:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes!!! two weeks is not long enough to know if love is there. you sound very young so let me tell you a secret. if you want to run a man off start talking about "LOVE." you need to let this relationship develope you might later decide you don't like this guy when you get to really know him.
2007-03-06 03:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by misse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋