Im a girl in a bit of a pickle!!!! I have fallen for my best friend, We have been friends for over 9 years and have always been very close,but only in the mate way!! The other weekend i just sort of looked at him and felt this loving feeling towards him he is good looking funny kind and i know he would treat me like a princess. I would love to be with him, the way he looks at me sometimes and the way he acts around me makes me think he feels the same way too but i do not know how to come about this as im not sure he knows how i feel or if he even feels the same way. Also i dont want to lose him as a friend as that relationship we have is too special and means the world to me!! HELP PLEASE!!
2007-03-06 03:11:56 · 5 answers · asked by LOVELY ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He probably feels the same way that you do, but he hasn't said anything either for the same reasons you mentioned. Be up front with him about it, and if he doesn't feel the same way I don't think it would be a big deal, seeing as how you've been friends for almost 10 years.
I would go for it, because otherwise you could be missing out on a lifetime of happiness and memories. You only live once, might as well make the most of it and take a chance.
2007-03-06 03:18:44 · answer #1 · answered by Blaze Money 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow! If your friendship is as close as you say it is, you have nothing to lose. Great friendship makes the best kind of a relationship. Tell him how you feel and he should do the same. When and if you two take it further that's "super" for the both of you. Love is the greatest emotion you'll ever feel. Go with it and enjoy every moment. Hope this helps! Cocoa
2007-03-06 03:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened with me before i didnt no what to do so i just started of flirting and getting more flirty each time he seen me, in the end he guessed and by that time i had got over him but become so flirty i couldnt stop- so dont do this boys are blind in the face of love just let it out slowly and say if he dont want a relationship then u still want to be friends make sure you tell him that though , hope i have helped
2007-03-06 03:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Wild-@-Heart ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel first. and see if you can try to have a relationship . you and him might actually have lots of more fun. dont be scared if he says no or doesnt feel the same he should still as thick as hes always been
2007-03-06 03:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him straight up. Don't play games. You owe him that much as a friend.
If he has no girl friend then you're in the drivers seat.
2007-03-06 03:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋