Ok here's the deal! I am single and have been for the past 3 months. I have two guys that I'm torn between. They both like me and I like them. EXCEPT there's one problem. I don't know who to go after. I mean they both are sweet and so adorable and charming, but one of them has this something that you don't find in a lot of guys.........but then again the other one is better as a life partner. I don't know what to do anymore. I've tried everything! GUY1 is the sweetest person you will EVER find and GUY2 is the most romantic......GUY1 keeps me laughin and smiling.....while GUY2 turns me on and stuff......I don't know how to choose...Anyone have any ideas?
2007-03-06 03:08:38 · 14 answers · asked by Avie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bring them, separately of course, to events where your friends and , or , family will be and see how it goes. Sometimes the opinions of others help. Most of all you have got to take the pressure off yourself. You must be something special to be able to attract two great guys. If neither if them is pressuring you for a commitment then it's you that is the immediate problem. Good luck. No matter what , or whom, you decide on don't fall into that trap of always trying to wonder about, "whatever happened to so & so. ?" . If you really think they are both that great, how about fixing up one of your better friends with Mr. Great Guy No.2 ?
2007-03-06 03:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put them in a machine and melt them together. If that doesn't work, then you'll have the hard job of making a decision. You need to know what YOU want out of life. Someone who will take care of you and be there for you or someone who is hot in bed... tough choice! Does Guy 2 make you laugh too?
2007-03-06 03:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom always told me to marry someone who makes me laugh and someone whol I can talk to. When you're older, looks fade, all the lust will past but if you have a partner you can talk to, it's like having a best friend. Keep in mind that you will just start dating and you'll get to know eachother better...it doesn't mean you will marry. Hope you choose the right one.
2007-03-06 03:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you who to choose, because I don't know you or either of the guys personally and I don't know who would be the most compatible.I do, however, recommend chosing soon before they find out about each other and you may end up with no one.
2007-03-06 03:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you, yet enable him make the subsequent flow. in case you want him, ensure you usually go back his glances. A wink from you to him could flow a looooong thanks to giving a guy self belief to ask you out. the numerous issue isn't to play video games. do not ignore about him, yet do not coach any desperation both. once you're round him, hearken to what he says. attempt to sit down down close to him--right now for the time of is perfect for a guy-lady seating for communication.
2016-12-05 08:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i guess that guy2 is the one that u need.. my opinion take this one i mean it.. hey i'm a girl like ya and i've been a problem like urs so i choosed the romantic one and i did it... he's the one girl take care of him and u'll be fine good luck sweety.. ;o)
2007-03-06 03:15:29 · answer #6 · answered by Someone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take these ideas on how to chose:
1)who have you known longest
2)who makes you the happiest
3)who can you see a future with
4)who attracts you more
5)who likes you most
6)who do you feel more comfortable around
7)who can you see telling all your secrets to?
2007-03-06 03:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advise you to go for guy1 because it sounds like your more comfortable around him.
2007-03-06 03:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rorry P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tuff answer. i would go with guy 2 because he sounds like the best. but it's really up to you.
2007-03-06 03:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by NIKKI S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't choose
date them both and see what happens after a month or so
2007-03-06 03:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by Greeneyed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋