We met on the internet a long time ago, and after a while we decided to meet up. This we have done, but I found out see is still seeing her so-called ex boyfriend, and they where meant to be married this year but the army called him away. I have emailed the guy and evidently he knew all about us and was waiting for our "girl" to tell him what was going on. I travelled 5000 miles to see her and start a life, now I'm faced with this, what should I do?
2007-03-06 03:03:49 · 12 answers · asked by englishprince06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she enjoys a dip in both ponds - unfortunately you're one of the dips - ditch her, not worth the hassle......
2007-03-06 03:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, my heart goes out to you. I wouldn't wait for her though. How long has she been seeing both? Maybe she is taking advantage of the whole situation. There are a thousand female fishies out there. But I guess it also depends on how much you love the girl. Put up a fight and don't let go. Or let her have her first love that obviously she still loves. I'm glad Im not that girl, shes got herself in a web. Listen to your heart hun...........
2007-03-06 11:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation before we were together for 4 years actually and it never worked out and i did anything to see her i went to the usa for just the weekend. I lost all my friends to it except one or two, i counted al my trips for the last 4 years was about 35 trips back and forth she did 2. i honestly think that your better off without her. I know its gonna be hard but you will find someone else. it will take time tho. best of luck to you
2007-03-06 11:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by pilot777 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is going to come out of this with no-one so what other options do you have? It sounds like she was playing you for company while her bf was away with the army. What do you want to do? I would drop her like a hot turd and suggest the bf drop her too. Which one of you would want her knowing she is a liar and a cheat?
2007-03-06 11:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm he knows about you two?? Seems like this girl is playing ye both!!! Shes stringing ye both along - she must be one hell of a girl to say you're both aware of the situation and you're both willing to stick it out with her!
however - I think that its too much of a risk so far as you're involved - if you up and leave your home for this girl and she then decides to pick him - or indeed someone else over you - you're kinda after leaving everything behind for nothing!!!
Think carefully hun - it seems shes not as loved up as you are!
xx
2007-03-06 11:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, she sounds like she wants her cake and eat it. Unchain yourself from your computer and get out a bit more and you might find you meet someone who wants a proper relationship.
2007-03-06 11:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by isleofskye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little shady to me.
I'd go home, sounds like a waste of time.
2007-03-06 11:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her, and if she wants to continue with her ex dump her.
2007-03-06 11:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother confronting her - just dump her.
2007-03-06 11:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by Martin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dump her she sounds like bad news.
2007-03-06 12:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋