I have an ex boyfriend & we broke up in May after a two year relationship. In June he met another woman & got her pregnant. He moved in with her right away. They were together only 1 month. The baby is due in April. My ex & I had an 1/2 hour long conversation on the phone last night about what went wrong with the two of us. He tells me that he still loves me & thinks about me all the time, everyday and that it isn't good to still have these feelings with a pregnant girlfriend. He also stated that he probably wouldn't be with her if she wasn't pregnant. What should I do? Is there relationship going to work? Please help. This is the first time we've really spoken since August.
2007-03-06 02:57:05 · 6 answers · asked by blackie8774 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no matter what, don't take him back. he is not worth it. his relationship wont work with her but obviously it didn't work with you either. don't try to make something work that isn't meant to.
2007-03-06 03:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did it work the first time? now you have to add to the equation of it not working before another woman and soon to be a child...
hind site is 20/20...look back at what happened before add in the child and woman and be smart. He is more than likely trying to get away from the responsibility he has...a child on the way...and now what he had with you looks good...but if it was so good why did the breakup happen in the first place?
think about this and be smart.
be cool...
2007-03-06 11:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he probably feels obligated to her b/c of the baby. But that doesn't mean he HAS to be w/ her......will their relationship work? not if he's not in it for the right reasons, and a baby is not a good reason to "stay" in a relationship
2007-03-06 11:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by licydechorerra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still feels this way, it's definitely not fair to his girlfriend. However, I see he's trying to step up and be a man about this pregnancy issue and I respect that.
I would stay out of it for now. Let the two of them work it out before you step in anywhere.
2007-03-06 11:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't love her he needs to tell her he will be responsible for his child but it is not fair to make her think he wasnts to continue his relationship with her.
they are also at a time where she can't or maynot feel like having sex and he is looking for greener pastures. don't do anything until he moves his *** out of her house. don't play the fool.
2007-03-06 11:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by misse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds dangerous
2007-03-06 11:01:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋