I'm 16 and im a female...I recently broke up with my boyfriend of about 2 months because his brother was giving me proof about him doing stupid things with his female friends...Anyways i really like this guy from school...Hes really good friends with my best friend...They talk about me at their karate class and he seems intereseted in me but he has a girlfriend that also goes to karate....Anyways my best friend said that he doesnt really like his girlfriend...i really dont know what to do in this situation...Have any suggestions?
2007-03-06 02:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by amber j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not cheating on his gf...He's smarter then that and so am I....I'm not causing problems in his relationship....I havn't even said anything to him about getting rid of her he's the one telling my best friend about how he doesnt really like her.
2007-03-06 02:44:21 · update #1
wait til he breaks up with the girfriend b4 u do anything
2007-03-06 02:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also kind of in the same situation though, but I know what to do. I'm just scared of doing it.
Listen, I'm also in love with a guy, he has no girlfriend, but he hangs out a lot with this girl. I want to prevent it, but it's so mean. So I'm trying to do this... (I don't guarantee you any success. In fact, it can be ''dangerous'', you know what I mean?)
- First of all, you must befriend his girlfriend. Well you don't have to be friends with her, but get her so far that you two can talk about your crush openly. Maybe you should ask your best friend about this first.
- And if you're done with the first step, you should hang out a little bit with the couple. You certainly already know that you mustn't be like, you know an ''obstacle'' that follows them all the time. Just talk with them (both!) occasionally.
- When it's going quite OK, you should do something fun with them. Like bowling or lunching or whatever. Get to know each other. But don't do this too often!
- After this, you might notice that they find you VERY disturbing, so give them some rest.
- Then, when they're ''cooled off'', find a way to be friends with them. I don't know how, but now it's totally up to you!!!
- Repeat the steps. So when you're finally friends of each other, go find a good way by yourself to get the boy for yourself.
I know that this is radical and very risky, but I'm seeing it from my aspects. I don't believe that this will work OK, but at least I'm trying. Now I'm at step 2.
Good luck. And don't forget to get some information from your best friend, to keep you up-to-date!
Normally I would say ''GO FOR IT!'', but since he has a girlfriend that would be very difficult.
2007-03-06 10:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Chelsea Blue ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and just in high school. Go after whatever you want. Come college time no one from high school will matter. Flirt with the guy and see what he does. If he breaks up with his GF then go in for the kill. If not I am sure in a few weeks/months you will find someone else to like.
2007-03-06 10:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend then stay away. You are upset at your boyfriend because he was messing with other girls. If the guy you like really doesn't like his girlfriend then he will break up with her. Wait until then if you really want to persue this guy.
2007-03-06 10:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't deal with a guy who has a girlfriend. If he likes you he will dump her. If he doesn't then he's not worth the hassel. Your old boyfriend don't deal him either doesn't seem like he is any good. Find a new boy there are soooo many!!!
2007-03-06 10:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your still young you have all the time in the world to just set back and relax and pick the best man that you think deserves you,so dont rush just observe on who do you think the best between the 2
2007-03-06 10:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't do something positive to attract him, you may find yourself waiting in the wings a long time. If he really likes you better than his current girl, you may have to take that first step to get him to respond.
2007-03-06 10:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that karate boy likes you, you have to wait until he is a free man.
2007-03-06 10:38:05 · answer #8 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you like him??Talk to him and let him know how you feel about him...see what happens afterwards...or maybe you should just wait for him to come to you...you dont want to break up a couple and feel guilty about it..it wouldn't be nice or appropiate...so just wait and see if he comes to you...
2007-03-06 10:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to the guy you like. If he breaks up with his girlfriend, he will call you. If not, don't cause trouble.
2007-03-06 10:38:27 · answer #10 · answered by m15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋