i know this guy 2 days ago by sms.he`s the one who 'sms'ed me first.he told me that last time he was a black metal boy but now..
he is turn to be good.he is very honest to me and he told me every about him.everything!includings what he did when he was a black metal guy.and just now he asked me for a date!but the point is i am scared to meet him.plus i am not into this kind of things. i mean the black metal stuff.what should i do??
2007-03-06 02:12:45 · 23 answers · asked by need_a_help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he get my num from my fren..
they are in the same class.
and we are not in the same school
2007-03-06 02:23:26 · update #1
Stay away until u at least get to no him a lot better, emails, ph calls....
2007-03-06 02:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by super b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a grumpy old man, and don't understand anything about "black metal".
Maybe he's an blacksmith and when he's finished for the day he is covered in bits of black metal.
I think if I was going out with some one like this, I would want to know a little bit more about him. The boring stuff like, what sort of job he does, how much does he earn, has he got insurance, is he nice with pets...you know, the boring stuff can really reveal alot more about a person than if he's into "black metal" ( whatever that is).
Also, if you'r concerned about this person, why not just ask him to come out for a coffee, or tea. Choose a public space, and have a chat.
Nothing adventurous.
Only do that when you know them a bit better.
All the best
2007-03-06 10:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by pete m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wouldn't meet him, you've only known for him two days that is a really short time to have known and to trust someone. If you really want to meet up try getting to know him for a lot longer maybe chat on the phone and if you still decide to meet him take a friend a long with you and go somewhere very public during daytime as well as letting a third party know where you are going.
I don't know what Black metal is by the way so I can't help you out with regards to this point.
2007-03-06 10:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Pearl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should get to know him first before ever meeting him. You can ask your friend about his behaviour, his life style and if he has any girl friend so that you will not get hurt. Don't easily fall in love with him because if you do you might get hurt so easily. Take your time and study him. Try to know who he is. But if you don't want to have anything to do with him, then you can let it go. Just try and know things for your self before anything. May be he just want to use you and dump or may be he is your true love. Try to test him in many ways to see if he really love you.
2007-03-06 10:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by Goldah N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you put it off for a week or two - 2 days isnt very long to know someone - if hes genuine he'll respect your request to wait a while - if hes not then he wasnt worth knowing in the first place!
If you're wary of meeting him why not bring a few friends with you - again - a genuine guy will have no problem with this
xx
2007-03-06 10:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he got your number from a friend why not meet him with that Friend (however I would have words with the friend about giving your number to strangers!!!)
Have no idea what black metal is
2007-03-06 10:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where you are coming rom. Meeting this guy would be pretty scary. But if it was me in the situation, i would take a close friend with me, i wouldnt want to be alone.
2007-03-14 09:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is far too high risk. If your feeling unsure already that says alarm bells to me. Meet someone on a real natural basis, it may be more productive.
2007-03-13 16:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How could you ever have a date with a guy who scares you and with whom you have nothing in common?
You certainly don't need to justify or rationalise your decision not to see him, if this is makes you uncertain.
Just thank "thanks, you are a nice guy, but I don't think so" and move on. You want someone who you are not scared of and with whom you share things.
2007-03-10 09:49:47 · answer #9 · answered by Eugene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens dont go and meet this guy by yourself! Take a couple of friends maybe.
How did he get your mobile number???
2007-03-06 10:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should meet him. the time space between you txting is tooooo short and i would never go alone and without telling anyone where you are.
Your safety is the first priority.
Regards, Ria:-)
2007-03-06 10:18:28 · answer #11 · answered by Applelicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋