I been with my current boyfriend for about a year and a couple of months but in this year and couple of months he cheated on me and since than the augurements never stop but now my 1st is bac in the picture saying he love me and he messed up and learned from his mistakes and i love him and my current boyfriend they both so different and amazin in so many ways and they both have there flaws. i wish i could b wit both but that wouldnt be rite i want to make a decision. wat should i do??
2007-03-06 02:11:02 · 3 answers · asked by THAT BEYATCH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being with both would not be wrong. Not in my opinion.
Don't assume that just because society views it this way makes it wrong.
The thing that would make it wrong would not being honest and open about it to both of them (any anyone they are intimate with) if you decided to.
With men cheating 60% of the time and women 40%, I assume that, contrary to social opinion, monogamy isn't normal for all people. Unfortunately, society isn't accomodating to those who want to be both honest and are not naturally monogamous. Open relationships are seriously frowned upon.
Most guys or girls don't cheat to get sex. It happens, but not to most people, IMO. Most fall into a relationship unexpectedly and only have two options they see open to them. Leave the new relationship, which is brutally difficult, or cheat. Society has shown them only those two choices.
I am polyamorous. I am very open about my feelings and non-monogamous nature. I always make certain everyone involved is aware and OK before I enter into a relationship (their significant other, if they have one, and my wife). Though sex is a component of these romantic relationships, it's no different than anyone with a girlfriend or wife. They are long term and very loving relationships.
I've always wondered why people find cheating (breaking the rules) more acceptable than open and honest non-monogamy.
2007-03-06 02:15:31 · answer #1 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 06:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick neither and stay single...you don't know what you want obviously...taking some time to yourself it will help you decide...
2007-03-06 02:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋