help i love me ex so much i think about him every minute or the day,stupid little things remind me of him...he says he cares for me but the spark isnt there no more...any ideas on what i could do!!?he says its over for good but i cannot and wont let myself give up beacuse i no its meant to be!!
2007-03-06 02:05:06 · 12 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that there's much you can do as your ex doesn't seem interested in restarting a relationship with you.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
2007-03-06 02:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Pearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the pain you are feeling. It's awful and it feels like it will never go away unless you convince him he is wrong. It is so hard to let go of something that made you so happy for so long. But, I promise you it is not the end of the world, no matter how it turns out. This situation calls for a lot of thought and reservation on your part. Think about it, do you really want to be with someone who is fighting to not be with you? Or says the spark is gone for them and it's over. You deserve better than that. No person should have to fight for love to have it. Love, the kind that lasts, will come willingly and it will stay willingly. You won't have to chase it or beg it or pray for it. There is always the chance that he will realize what he has tossed away, but only if you give him space and time to figure it out by himself. As much as you want to, do not be one of those overly-dramatic women that is around every corner he turns or rings his phone every hour or more. Be strong. Take every day as it comes and fill them with friends and activities to take your mind off of him. No man who has to be chased, is worth the chase. If it is meant to be, it will be..... and that is not just some ole saying... it is truth.
2007-03-06 03:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by barefootbabee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
princess i feel for you..but this relationship is over, your ex has made that perfectly clear, even after the valentine thing.
you need to let go, get on with your life because you are acting like a stalker and this will not win him back.
show him you have moved on, stop texting and ringing, go out and pretend your having fun, he wont miss you or evaluate your relationship whilst you are showing what a devastated wreck he has made you. when he sees you having a life without him he MIGHT start to miss you and realise what you had together.
if its meant to be he will come back of his own accord and believe me by then you might not even want him.
2007-03-06 02:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by slsvenus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but it's over. The more you dwell on this the worse you will feel and the harder it will be to get over him. Get out with friends and get on with your life. If it is really meant to be you will end up back together, but dwelling on it and pursuing him will just make it worse and not solve anything. I know a broken heart sucks but time is a good healer. This may not be what you want to hear but it's the truth. Take care
2007-03-06 02:13:08 · answer #4 · answered by SilverSurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says it's over for good then it probably is, I know it's hard to take but we all go through it in our lives. no relationship will work if only one half has feelings. The worst thing you could do is keep calling him or bothering him as this will really repel him.
If he thinks that there is a chance, he will come to you. Fight the temptation to contact him, go and and enjoy yourself, you have to get this guy out of your system.
Good luck x
2007-03-06 02:14:32 · answer #5 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason u keep thinking about it and can't move on because u don't want to accept it, your in denial over it. if someone has told u it is over with, and u won't accept it your going to suffer emotionally over it. bad happens to all of us, just respond to it differently. as we can't make someone love us that doesn't. best u know now than after years of being married. he isn't a keeper only u can't see it, things happen for a reason, maybe it is a good thing that u know how he is, and chances of him treating his next girlfriend any better are slim. as love is not about a feeling, its a decision.
2007-03-06 02:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody likes it when this happens. You got to be strong and admit to yourself that its over! Suround yourself with your friends....socialise and move on. Its the hardest thing ever and it will take time. You'll probably be an even nicer person for it!!
2007-03-06 02:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by Chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on dear...keep busy try everything possible to not think about him..you''ll get over him trust me...you'll find someone else that will love you and appreciate you more eventually..
2007-03-06 02:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I said before, you gotta let go and stop being a selfish little thing who puts her own needs before all others.
2007-03-09 21:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was meant to be he'd want you as much as you want him but he doesnt.your still long and the man who you are really destined for will come,you have to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince so just see this a experiance..the pain will go trust me and someone who loves you as much as you love them will come.trust me chick.been there.
2007-03-06 02:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by ViXoNvEe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋