would you want a guy who will defend your honor?example someone like a waiter or waitress or anyone else in public is rude to you.wouldnt you want a guy who will defend you?i think you would,im asking this because my in laws say just let people run over top you and i think thats foolish.you wouldnt want a guy whos not going to stand up for you.
2007-03-06 01:58:28 · 25 answers · asked by Daniel c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would want a gut that would defend my honor. I would be pissed if i let someone walk all over me. That more or less just gives them the invite to do it over and over. so yea i would for sure want a guy to defend my honor!!!!
2007-03-06 02:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol I gotta a good example to this. I started seeing this guy. About a week in were driving my son around so he'll fall asleep and this suv started following me. I went down side roads, wooded roads anywhere just tobe sure he WAS following me. So i pulled into a little store. The guy I was with was running at the mouth talking sh!t like he'd do something. These two hugh guys got out there car with bats. The guy I was with didnt say a Word, was totally hush mouth. I had to get out b/c I was p.od b/c my son was in the car. Ended up us being the wrong person they were trying to find. I never spoke to him again. I will only date a man who is willing to stand up for not only me but also my son. After I had my son I learned not to let anyone walk over you or they all will. Your right keep being you and always stand up for whats right
2007-03-06 10:06:24 · answer #2 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend how he went about defending me. If he makes a scene by talking loudly - or yelling- or knocking somebody out - I'd rather just have a rude waiter.
Now IF my guy - in a quiet, non-confrontational way - said to a rude waiter - something like - "There's no place for you to be rude here - we're in the presence of a lady - and I'd like for you to treat her as such." I would love that!
So - if the defense is done in an honorable way - YES. If the guy is trying to defend me - but becomes a bit of a jerk himself - or makes a scene - in his attempt - then NO.
2007-03-06 10:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To a point I would like a guy who takes a stand but that person also needs to know when to back down.
2007-03-06 10:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by sexypanty07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would want a man to defend me. How he does it depends on the situation. Sometimes, walking away is the best solution; sometimes speaking up (waiter, cab driver, etc.) is the best solution.
2007-03-06 10:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Initially I like to be able to stand up for myself first, but I want to know I have backup. So yes I want a man who would stand up for me and is willing to do so when I need it.
2007-03-06 10:04:18 · answer #6 · answered by sedusa71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i deff would want a guy to stand up for me, unless i can handle it by myself...lol but most of the time at least back me up, ya know? i think that is sweet and shows that you care about her feelings and how ppl treat her. your doing the right thing! in laws suck and are never right, trust me.
good luck!
2007-03-06 10:04:18 · answer #7 · answered by help! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only time I want my guy to stand up for me is against his family or if its a guy getting in my face other then that I can handle myself.I don't let anyone walk all over me.
2007-03-06 10:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a guy to stand up for me. Change in laws, lol.
2007-03-06 10:00:14 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a man who will defend me against anything. It's a really nice feeling. I feel sorry for anyone who would try it, tho. He punched his sister in the face for calling me a f**** B****. See?
2007-03-06 10:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by blondee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋