Ok, everyone who reads this DON'T give no smarta** answers....Okay I have this dude I like..but he is 18 and Iam 16 but he is one of my brother's friends..he thinks I'm pretty and smart to be 16 but my brother don't want me and him to be together ,but everyone esle is saying we was ment for each other...I'm confussed I need help so.......what should I do????/
2007-03-06 01:55:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow you heart.........
2007-03-06 01:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
enzo32ferrari's dating tips...for girls:
Topic: Getting a boyfriend that is a friend of your brother.
Things that you can do:
1. Tell your brother what you feel about your friend. He'll listen, but even if he doesn't he'll take it into consideration.
2. Ignore your brother. He isn't you. You have the right to make the choices you want to make...even if he is your brother's friend...your brother isn't planning to go out with him, so just do what you feel and see if he asks you out.
3. Talk to both your brother and your friend at the same time. In a group conversation. Maybe your brother will tell you why you don't want to be with him.
2007-03-06 10:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by enzo32ferrari 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're listening to your brother? maybe you are smart after all. THis "dude" is one of your brothers freinds, and your brother probably knows a lot more about him than you do. Find out what he knows. It could be the dude is just interested in sex, and not in you at all. COuld be that this dude has had a series of "romantic" escapades and your brother just doesn't want you to be one. Or it could be that your brother would just feel weird with his bud hanging out with his sister. you won't know until you ask. so ask, and listen.
2007-03-06 10:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by kerfitz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're brother knows this guy so you should take it into account... unless your bro is gay and he wants him for himself that would be wrong...
tell your brother and im pretty sure he'll tell you things that are wrong about his friend but why is he his friend then in the first place right??
so think about it...
2007-03-06 10:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jean Paul 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean to be a Smarta**, but in times of trouble, my mom always says, "Turn the water off moron! We aren't Old Faithful here!"
2007-03-06 09:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Joe K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will end in disaster for everyone. When this guy goes off to college and effs everything with a willing hole things will change. If he is not going to college, is he worth it?
2007-03-06 10:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should avoid your brother's decision. You should to take decision ab your own.
2007-03-06 10:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Rifat Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your brother will always be that way. you need to do what you feel. if he feels the same way go for it.
2007-03-06 10:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by lady bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart if you want to be with him...go for it!!!! If your brother gets mad Oh well!!! He will deal with it.....
2007-03-06 10:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be wit him yo brother is just sayin that cause thats HIS friend and your HIS YOUNGER sister
2007-03-06 09:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by heather s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your brother to deal with it.
2007-03-06 09:58:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋