2007-03-06 01:53:33 · 10 answers · asked by Kayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All you have to do is..................................................................................................................................................... Be YOURSELF!!! Do no try to be something you're not! If people do not like you for who you are, then you do not need them in your life anyway. But I'm sure if people gave you a chance to get to know you they would like you. But until then....f#c! the haters! They wont matter in 10 years from now anyway. You find out who your true friends are...trust me! Friends will come and friends will go....but in the end, the true ones are still around!!!
You must love yourself b4 anyone else can!!
2007-03-06 01:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step One: Erase the conception of your personality as dull. Even if someone has told you that you are dull, it may make a difference if you even just believe that you aren't.
Step Two: Develop some interests. Get into some hobbies. People like to be around others who have something to talk about. However, don't go overboard and obsess over one thing because talking about one thing over and over will become EXTREMELY dull. Broaden your horizons and enlighten yourself on a variety of different topics. Use every opportunity you have to become charismatic and friendly. Even more than people like to be around knowledgable people, they like to talk about themselves. Ask people questions and make sure they know that you are interested in what they have to say. Listen to them attentively and respond well. However, don't use their stories as a springboard for your own.
Overall, have fun and let it show on your face.
I hope I have been some help to you.
2007-03-06 02:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh! Seriously, learn to laugh at yourself. I tell people that I start the day looking in the mirror so I can get a good laugh. I'm not really that funny looking, but I do look much better with a smile.
Secondly, look around you. There are a lot of funny things going on in the world. Make it your mission to find them. Just don't be cruel in the process. Make fun of things, not people!
And as I said before, if you laugh at yourself, people will be more open to your laughing at things they do, because they will understand you are not making fun of them.
2007-03-06 01:58:49 · answer #3 · answered by janejane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats because haven't expierenced much in life, you need to travel and experience life so that you have something interesting to bring into the conversation.Men who base relationships on beauty alone are often let down. Go bungee jumping or para sailing, get on with living, it will open up a whole new you.
2007-03-06 02:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever seen Failure to Launch? It gives good advice. First, consider what it is that he like to do, and then take some interest in it. For example, if he likes hockey, get online or watch TV to gather some general knowledge of hockey. Guys really like it when girls are into what they are into. Therefore, if you show that interest in something he really likes, he'll notice you. Then, once you've made that hook and have gotten to know him some, let him see you upset. This will immediately allows him to see his feelings for you, he'll have a chance to sympathize for you. For example, you've fallen, hurt you ankle and as a result, it a "damsel" in distress. Next, make a good impression on his friends. Friends really influence each other, so if they like you-- he'll like you more. Finally, let him teach you something. This will give him a sense of importance...
2007-03-06 02:03:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jami C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg are you me?!? lol i think of precisely an analogous, i'm no longer undesirable looking the two i individually style of like the way i seem yet I fell for a guy that definitely anybody tells me is gruesome i'm in basic terms such as you needless to say have not talked to him because of the fact he's the main marvelous guy you may ever talk with lol so I easily understand the type you sense
2016-09-30 06:48:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start Liking yourself first. Looks are outter exterior you need to start on the inside.
Being kind, sincere, and yes fun to be around...not like a bump on a log...never smiling..or laughing.....
You need to find out within..what makes you Happy* ppl aren't Happy all the time, but personality shines through when you are.
Start LIKING yourself and then Others will begin to like you too* GOODLUCK
go to library and find a book on Self Worth*...self esteem...it will guide you on learning out how to find yourself within, like yourself so then others can like you too*
2007-03-06 01:59:28 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosen up! Go camping! Act like nothing is a big deal! Tell some jokes! Take up kickboxing!
2007-03-06 01:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give more comforts
2007-03-06 01:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show your boobs.
2007-03-06 01:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋