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Question

im turning 13 soon. i have a boyfriend and im soooo shy to talk to him, i literally avoid him. When he talks to me @ school, i try talking to him but than i kinda walk away. on msn we talk a lot but at school im just too shy. i feel so weird around him. What should i do? PLZZZZZ HELP

i have a boyfriend and im too shy to talk to him, i feel so weird around him for some reason, my frends push me to talk to him but i just cant, we do say hi and bye but nothing else. My friends are telling me that i should talk to him more they even grab me and bring me to him so we can talk but all we can hear is silence. he gets mad at me becuz i literally avoid him, i say sorry to him and i tell him tht im just too shy. i dont want us to break up, but i cant talk to him:S HELP!

Answer 1

You can't keep a realtionship alive just through MSN you need to talk to him...you might be shy but if your dating him you need to open up and relax and just be yourself....Talk about stuff that ya'll have in common....and try to hang out with him outside of school...Like go to the mall, see a movie...something where you can enjoy sometime together...But your still young......sooo don't worry about it to much if it doesn't work out!!!! Best Of Luck <3

Answer 2

You're only 13 and new to the "dance." Just relax and breathe, honey. When you're near him, stand your ground, with a bright, happy smile in place. Talk about general things that interest you both...maybe sports, maybe music, maybe a teacher. Kid around! Keep a breath mint handy for confidence! Don't stress; he's just a kid ,too, and probably more nervous than you. Most people are more confident over the phone or on the computer. They both give you a little time to gather your best thoughts, etc. In person, it's a bit overwhelming, but you'll get the hang of it. It's easier in a group! Then you can play off other friends and not have to carry the conversation.

Answer 3

Find something the two of you have in common, and use that to get closer to him. Playing soccer or a video game. it will help to distract you so you do not get so nervous. If you talk about somthing you are really interested in you will be so caught up in the conversation you will forget about being nervous. Instead of talking in a secluded quiet place, meet in a public place so there is not as much stress on you. You will feel more comfortable that way. I hope this helps. Good luck to you.

Answer 4

Find somthing to talk about. And maby the reason you feel weird is that you're 13 and you have a boyfriend

Answer 5

You should try to feel more comfortable around him instead of acting like you still in elementary. Because if you keep on walking away form him he will think that you don't like him as much he likes you, also he may think that you are childish so loosen up he's your boyfriend.

Answer 6

it sounds like your not ready to have a boyfriend. how is he your bf if your too shy to talk to him. maybe just take it slow and ask yourself why you are so shy around him. is it b/c maybe your scared if you show your true self he won't like you?

Answer 7

hey i knew how you feel right now i have always found it eaiser to talk to guys on msn or even a b/f like u and i used to be shy to talk to me b/f to but after about 2months it got better and wat i did was when i anted to talk to him i had my friends around cause im never shy around my friends cause they wont care what u say to your b/f and i always felt more relaxed around them i hope this helps

Answer 8

at your age just have fun..do fun things but don't get serious and don't let things get out of hand..talk to your mother and let her know about your feelings..she was a girl once too

Answer 9

i guess you're not ready to have a bf yet.
how can one be too shy to talk to her bf?
building a r/s on msn is unhealthy.... you need to get yourself to talk to him face to face.

Answer 10

well u say him u hink for him in the school & say thatu will chat with him but not talk with him @ scool