i hav been tols my bf is cheatin on me..but i felt dat i sud trust him..at that time, i asked him..which he denied n i trusted him..but i not oni hear one telling me..sum told me he flirted wit my own good fren..she din tell me..my frenz say she dun wanna hurt me..yea rite..now i hear he is wit his EX. if i ask him agun, he will deny n say why i dun trust him.prob now is..hu do i blif?i oni wanna noe de truth..i will let him go..if i reli found out he cheated on me..but rite noe..wad sud i do?
2007-03-06 01:41:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have been told my bf is cheatin on me..but i felt that i should trust him..at that time, i asked him..which he denied n i trusted him..but i not only hear one telling me about stuff..some told me he flirted wit my own good fren..she didnt tell me..my frenz say she dun wanna hurt me..yea rite..now i hear he is with his EX. if i ask him again, he will deny n say why i dont trust him..prob now is..who do i blif?i oni wanna know de truth..i will let him go..if i really found out he cheated on me..but right now..wad should i do?
2007-03-06 01:50:48 · update #1
You should get back to school and work on your spelling and grammar. If you want serious answers to your issue at least give the people the respect of not using text speak.
2007-03-06 01:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Quix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Ya it is going to hurt, but you are only wasting your time and efforts. You deserve somone who is going to return your love and efforts. He just is not the right one. It will not come to a surprise to him when you do dump him. If he really did care about you he would not be messing around on you anyways. You deserve the best, I can not stress that enough. I hope this helps. Good luck and Good health to you.
2007-03-06 01:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys deny that they cheat.
Either people are out to hurt you with telling you that he is cheating, or they are telling you the truth and dont want you to find out any other way. What does your instinct tell you to do
2007-03-06 01:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where there is smoke there is fire..
stay with him but know that you are probably sharing him with one or others..its a case of trust and faith..
just give you guys some time to cool off ..it would be the smart thing
2007-03-06 01:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL THE FIRST THING I CAN TELL YOU IS WHAT THE HELL!! I CAN NOT UNDERSTAND YOUR ENGLISH.. AND ALSO WHY ARE U WORRIED ABOUT SOME GUY THATS MAKING U GO THROUGH ALL OF THIS?? I MEAN I WENT THROUGH THIS WITH MY BF NOW AND FOUND OUT HE WASNT CHEATING EITHER PPL ARE JELOUS STUPID PPL OR THEY R RIGHT EITHER WAY DROP HIM IT ANT WORTH THE PAIN AND TIME THINKING ABOUT HOW AND WHEN PS.. TYPE BETER NEXT TIME!!
2007-03-06 01:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by becca m 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sit back and watch, keep doing what your doing and dont change your ways. if he's with someone else he'll leave if not he's only using them or maybe they are trying to take him away from you to tests the relationship. or maybe they want to just see if he will cheat on you. jealousy is serious stuff. maybe your friends are not your real friends
2007-03-06 01:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by cmooredr2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blast this song whenever he's around and see what kind of reaction you get!
By Carrie Underwood:
Before He Cheats
Right now he's probably slow dancing with a bleached-blond tramp,
and she's probably getting frisky...
right now, he's probably buying her some fruity little drink cause she can't shoot whiskey...
Right now, he's probably up behind her with a pool-stick, showing her how to shoot a combo...
And he don't know...
That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
And maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.
Right now, she's probably up singing some
white-trash version of Shania karoke..
Right now, she's probably saying "I'm drunk"
and he's a thinking that he's gonna lucky,
Right now, he's probably dabbing 3 dollars worth of that bathroom Polo...
And he don't know...
That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat,
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
And maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.
I might saved a little trouble for the next girl,
Cause the next time that he cheats...
2007-03-06 12:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Reserved 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. that's totally puzzling to forgive somebody to whom you have entrusted your coronary heart and your self. And he informed you he loves you...that's mendacity...it is not love. that's in simple terms a sport to him. And who could provide his/her coronary heart brazenly to somebody...to be in simple terms performed of? human beings have emotions. that's puzzling to forgive than to commit a mistake. that somebody could desire to've prevalent that until now he started out that relationship with you. in actuality, each and every person could desire to understand that until now moving into a relationship like that. that somebody could desire to've prevalent which you would be harm if he cheated on you. He did no longer admire your coronary heart...your emotions...your love...yet maximum of all, he did no longer admire YOU. possibly you could forgive him yet actually unlikely back together. something so deep isn't truthfully forgiven. and you could desire to have some self-maintenance. He already wasted your emotions and you provide him a 2d danger? No! Why could you? you're harm. What if he does the comparable to you back? that's fairly painful. you could desire to have the braveness to instruct him which you will stay without him...which you will take it from right here...which you do no longer choose his love (or his sport)...which you will discover different adult men obtainable...that he's no longer of worth of you. in actuality, he has no longer shown himself worth of such love. If he had admire to you, he could desire to've informed you that face-to-face until now he went out with yet another female. it fairly is the component. that's approximately your self, your fee, love and admire. yet while he did trespassing on those, you could desire to think of approximately it extra. yet fairly, if that's my case, i does no longer forgive him. permit him rot...
2016-10-02 11:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you already have doubts....he most likely is cheating.
If there is no trust...there is no relationship!!!
2007-03-06 01:46:42 · answer #9 · answered by Chipmunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, could you re ask that question with proper English??
2007-03-06 01:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋