I mean cmon people maybe there are smarter people than that. Maybe there are people who made mistakes who dont want to make the same mistake. so I will ask my series of Questions again.
What is going on with him?
I like this guy alot. He seems really great. He is a wonderfull father which is awsome because I have a child too. And I think its sexy. Anyway latley he has been having alot of problems with alot of overwhelming things. He says it might not be me but he has been very pessimistic latley. I call him and I get accused of being clingy. I try to invite him over to de stress and he refuses. I offer advice and he just says he needs to solve his own problems. I offer to help and he once again says he needs to solve his own problems. I want to be a freind and I am just trying to help. Why does he keep refusing? and he says he likes me and I have been in his bed so its obviouse and I dont need to question it but how am I not supposed to? and if he likes me then why is he refusing my
2007-03-06 01:38:26 · 11 answers · asked by moonlitocean2000 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then why is he refusing my offers for help?
Ok so everyone knows we have not had sex. Grrrr why does everyone assume that everyones having sex these days!??? theres another question Ill ask. and he said that if I have been in his bed I should be confident he likes my and he is on his way to see a shrink
2007-03-06 01:40:05 · update #1
Sounds like he is in the middle of a lot of "stuff". Let him work it out. He knows you are there, but let him come to you (kind of like a cat...). Be his friend. IT'S OK THAT YOU HAVEN'T HAD SEX. Stay that way.
Some people (both men and women) need to work out their own stuff. Let him. Just stand by and love him, and be what he needs you to be right now. He'll love you more for that than for solving his problems.
2007-03-06 01:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's what guys want out of a "relationship" If there's no sex, what's the point of being there? If you're NOT having sex, then it's not a "relationship", it's just a "FRIENDSHIP". Nothing wrong with that, though.
I'm currently NOT in a relationship because I don't want to use a woman just for sex. I've been this way for over 3 years. I'm happy this way and plan to continue my celibate life style. So, you see, men can live without sex.
2007-03-06 01:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the ultimate way to feel close to someone, to feel like you are one. Explain why you don't want sex, and explain that you are there for him.
He might think you are clingy cuz you are all over him with limited intimacy. Do you know how hard it is to have a girl all over you and you can't go any further than making out? It is frustrating and sometimes, painful.
2007-03-06 01:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by Brian H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is the only thing people have on their mind..its the universal thing that people talk about and obsess about
don't argue about religion or politics..but sex is something everyone agrees with and never gets out of their mind
2007-03-06 01:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone for now. Just let him know that you're there for him should he needs you. Sometimes silence is golden. Don't think too much and be overly concerned. He needs time.
2007-03-06 01:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well, i dont really get what your trying to say, but in my opinion, there's no need for sex in a r/s. but frankly speaking, sex does spice up a r/s...
2007-03-06 01:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ori-Hime 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that is the way this perverted world is seems as though everything is based on sex sad isn't it?
2007-03-06 01:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by shortyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man has issues.
Drop him.
Seriously.
2007-03-06 01:47:06 · answer #8 · answered by Darth_Owen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be frends with a man and not have sex. Here honey let's lay here and cuddle ................please!
2007-03-06 01:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by TREX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats wut keeps me n my boyfriend together
2007-03-06 01:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Laura J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋