Ive been going out with a girl that was originally my friend, we know we like each other (already talked about that), but our busy schedules (we are both student/ workers) only alow us to exchange maybe 2 or 3 calls a week, and we generally see each other once every 7 days. Just curious to hear opinions: do you think the time we spend together is right? too much? too little?
2007-03-06 01:35:50 · 7 answers · asked by Javier B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your answers have been great so far! Thanks for your time and support.
2007-03-06 02:13:50 · update #1
The amount of "Quality" time spent together should only be determined by the people involved. If you and she want and need to see more of each other, make the time. If you're you're okay with what's happening, then deal with it. There's no rules on how much time people have to be together.
2007-03-06 01:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are both friends and not really committed to each other, it doesn't matter how often you or she calls and how often the two of you get together. When the two of you get engaged and with this strong committment, there has to be an understanding from the both of you that the schedule you are on now will keep you separated temporarily. Hopefully, you can stick it out. This is where TRUE LOVE is put to the test.
2007-03-06 09:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, are oyu going to be the jet-setter type with all kinds of business travel and no time ot do anything but go to the dating matchmakers
"It's Just Lunch" because you work till nine every night?
Then you're lucky, my friend, and you're good.
If you don't like this lifestyle you have, then change it.
And let her choose her fate also.
Just, if oyu're going to be this busy., please don't ever have kids, OK?
OK Good Luck!
2007-03-06 09:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by starryeyed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be enough for me personally, but if it's working for you then don't worry about it. If your GF isn't complaining and you are content, things are fine. When you slow down a bit you'll be able to spend more time together. Good luck.
2007-03-06 10:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think its alil too little. but thats my opinion i see my boyfriend like 5-6 days a week and talk to him all the time. Even if i have to work he will stop by and see me!
2007-03-06 09:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Candice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I dated my husband we saw each other 1 a week for a while nothing wrong if no one has a problem with it.
2007-03-06 10:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no certain amount of time you have to spend with someone...As long as you enjoy the time that you do spend with her then it's all good!!!! <3
2007-03-06 09:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋