my ex and I have been broken up for a month with no contact b/c she doesn't want me in her life right now. i do think about her and still care for her. i just found out her grandma died, i bought a sympathy card for her. should i send it or just keep her and her family in my prayers given our circumstances?
it was on her myspace page do u think she'd think i was crazy for knowing about thru myspace?
2007-03-06 01:34:56 · 17 answers · asked by so_sincere 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i'm not looking for a response from her and I would NEVER use this as a way back into her life. Her family was good to me while we were together and so was she. Regardless of how she feels about me I still care for her and her well being. I just remember b4 we broke up her granny was really sick and she doesn't take death too well as it is.
2007-03-06 01:59:56 · update #1
First thanks for your input on my situation, second send the card! She just lost her grandmother, no matter what you did or what happened between you, shes hurting and for you to show that you care would probably mean a lot. She needs support right now, let her know that you still care about her and your concerned. Who knows it may open a line of communication between the two of you again. About the MySpace thing.... if she didn't want people to know she wouldn't have posted it on her page.... Good Luck!
2007-03-06 01:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kattiey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. SHe is hurting right now, probably a lot. What I would do is this. Send her the crd. On the blank side, tell her that you always want her in your life, even if it is just as friends. Tell her she is your best friend, and you do not want to lose that. tel her that you are always there for her, and if she wants to talk about her loss, you are there to listen. And stuff like that.
Slip in under her dorr, or leave it where she will find it attached to a rose. She will be touched by your thoughtfulness, and most likley call you soon after.
I hope it all works out, really.
2007-03-06 09:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason not to send it. If you were close to her family when you were together address the card to them and her. I am sure she won't care how you found out, just that you cared enough to acknowledge her loss. Plus Myspace is out there for thousands of people to view, so it should not matter.
Plus it is good to keep them in your thoughts and prayers.
2007-03-06 09:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Important 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the card...Show that you are still there for her if she needs you!!! You never know she might be waiting for you to come back to her...Or she might just need a good friend and who would know her better than her ex who still cares about her right????? Best of luck <3
2007-03-06 09:41:35 · answer #4 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were close with her family I would send a card to the family. If you are looking for a responce from her this is not the way to go about it.
2007-03-06 09:42:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the card, buddy.
let god take care of the rest.
if she comes back, she is yours, if she doesn't, she never was.
sometimes, there IS love but CIRCUMSTANCES make two people fall apart. in such cases, try to keep the HAPPY MOMENTS of ur r'ship in ur palm, like you would hold a palm full of rose petals and blow them to the wind...
i can understand ur pain.
pls try REIKI ,YOGA OR SAHAJAYOGA. (www.sahajayoga.org......then click on "experience it now")
all the best, sometimes, its just enough to have a loving heart and be thankful to God that he made us capable of selfless love. in this cruel,malicious, wicked, evil world, isn't a heart like yours a blessing?
keep smiling n keep spreading smiles!
2007-03-06 09:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should send the card in times like this everyone needs to know that you are thinking about them and praying for their family. send the card
2007-03-06 09:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by shortyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her the card. Don't worry about it, it is just sympathy. Don't expect her to call you or write back. Don't worry about offending. That is neither your intention nor is it under your control.
2007-03-06 09:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by fangtaiyang 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send it to her. Write a short note that says how sorry you are for her loss and nothing more. Make sure it is just a friendly gesture and nothing else.
2007-03-06 09:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by janejane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you send it her... give her a call....She might need you the most at this time in her life......You never know this might bring you guys back together
2007-03-06 09:48:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋