my girlfriend says she might not be attrative to me but she loves me and does not touch me what should i do
2007-03-06 01:33:57 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BS. I would probably start looking for a new gf. I have never heard of someone being in love with someone but couldn't touch them. Intamacy is part of loving someone in this tyoe of relationship. I'm not just talking about sex but hugging, kissing, snuggling etc. I would say it's time to move on.
2007-03-06 01:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by jesreekakorb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can easily love someone.....friends family etc...but is she in love with you? Doesnt seem like thats the case. So I suggest you go out there and find a girl that likes touching you and likes everything about you and will do just about anything to be with you. Its not very healthy no to touch! She may love you, indeed. But the question is....Is she in love with you?? Good luck
2007-03-06 09:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you but is not attracted to you then I would suggest she is just a friend, not a girlfriend if that makes sense.
I love a few of my friends with all my heart, but the attraction is what makes them more than a friend. Ask her what she wants from the relationship, it may just be companionship. If she does want more then give her time, but let her know that the physical contact is important to you.
Hope this helps
2007-03-06 09:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by salsabrunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that if she wants to be your gf, then some physical interaction and attraction must be present, otherwise she is just another friend to hang out with, like say, your sister. I can hang out with a girl and have a good time, but unless we are at least swapping spit and getting a grope or two in, she isnt a gf, which means i can go looking for another who will anytime i want.
2007-03-06 09:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by rand a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her how you feel and myfriend name cherise told you take a shower. Its probalby not long enough.lol or she not ready to touch you give her some time
2007-03-06 09:37:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she loves you only as a friend. Go get another girl friend.
2007-03-06 09:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by velmicro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to move on and find a new g/friend, one who wants to be with you, hold your hand, be cuddled by you..Loves you For YOU....not someone who says "they don't think they're attracted to you" WOW what a hurtful thing to say. I wouldn't be a happy camper* and wouldn't want to be around her anymore. If she feels that uncomfortable...it's time to move on* without her~ GoodlucK*
2007-03-06 09:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get married..then she will have a reason not to touch you..but by then you won't care as you are feeling like a regular married guy..its the way of the world
2007-03-06 09:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should get another girlfriend that loves you and that will touch you!!!!
by the way if she loves you then she will touch wether you are ugly or hott!!! or rich or broke!!!!
or she is just really religious!!!!
2007-03-06 09:40:18 · answer #9 · answered by ~LYNN~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she a virgin > that could be the problem she may not know what to do or where to start
talk to her about it - let her know that that is something you want her to do - make her feel comfortable with it
2007-03-06 09:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋