My ex has been confusing the hell out of me. We have been on and off for 6 years now and HE broke up with me on christmas this past year. Ever since then he does the same thing he always does, he acts like we are still dating (putting his arm around me, kissing me, says he loves me). I still have feelings for him but he is immature sometimes. One day I got mad and ditched him and my other friend to go hang out with someone they dis-like and he called my cell and told me to never talk to him again, when the whole reason i left was because him and the other guy i was with before we total perverts. Now that I don't see him anymore, and don't talk to him, How do i apoligize or forget about him?
2007-03-06 01:33:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ex- Cheerleader 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget about him he needs 2 grow up
2007-03-06 01:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by so_sincere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do?
What do you have to apologize for?
If you've been on and off for 6 years, walk away. I wasted 10 years on the same type of relationship. We tried to be friends, but it didn't work (I'd been able to be friends with other exes). I finally told him to get out of my life - no communication whatsoever.
He won't commit to you, so walk away. Don't accept his calls, walk away when he puts an arm around you, etc. Don't make a big scene, just walk away.
2007-03-06 09:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...you don't have to apologize to these two guys or anyone else for their behavior honey. ex's are ex's for a reason hun. Apologize to yourself though,...and then excuse yourself from ever having to be in their idiotic presence ever again. We all have feelings about allot of stuff darling...but this guy shouldn't have to be one of em seriously. On and off again relationships?... are like playing broken records over and over again darling. They always end up getting broken and skipping in the same place again every time you play them.Get off the treadmill of going no where's with this confusing individual darling. You're smarter then this sweetie,....of this I'm fairly certain ya know.
2007-03-06 09:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really apinful for you. i think you need to make a decision about him. You see that six yeras you are together and nothing has changed - so the tendency is that it will go like this or even worse. Do you need it? do youu really need and want spend you time waiting for him to decide something or to change the relationships? Yes - he may be good at some points - but does he really care about your feelings?
You got a lop of patience and power to handle with it during six years, thinking of him and trying hard to make realtions better,. It is amazing for me how did you manange to do it. You are so strong. i think it is time for you to think about your future - you really really deserve a man who will care about YOU and YOUR FEELINGS.Wish you good luck!
2007-03-06 10:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by helga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's using you. Think about that and then decide what your plan of action will be.
2007-03-06 09:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by bladeshaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, there are more fish in the sea.
2007-03-06 09:37:57 · answer #6 · answered by Dingdingdong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋